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Search Results: how to make things work
Let things happen naturally?
Lately, I’ve been feeling this kind of… quiet desperation. 32 years old and alone. Like I go through life doing what I’m supposed to, minding my own business, nonchalantly, but deep down I feel stuck — like I’m waiting...
DMC93
Xper 4 Age: 33 In this situation , is it best to go out on a works night our or not?
Started a new job 3 months ago and I have been invited out a few times. I didn't want to go but went anyway to try to fit in more. But I was horrified by how they were really nasty and mean about other people in the...
Anonymous
(25-29) She ignored me so I guess I got my answer?
I was working with a friend and she could have stood on the other side but came to my side to talk to my friend. And I asked her are you ignoring me and she ignored me or didn’t hear me because she was just talking to my...
Anonymous
(25-29) What is up with my mother in law?
It's been a open secret in my family since I got married but me and my husband want to try for a baby soon. My whole both family seemed extremely excited and supportive about it and my mother in law even told everyone in...
Puppystarfish23
Yoda Age: 28 What should I do?
I’ve been with my partner for almost 7.5 years and have known his passcode to his phone just as he knows mine. Recently I was setting something up for a account he has and needed a text code that was sent to his phone,...
Anonymous
(36-45) Guys, Could there be potential down the line?
Fellas, I need help with understanding if there may be hope down the line for myself and this guy I had been seeing. I recently met up with an old friend from college and we hit it off. We went on a date and it was one...
Anonymous
(25-29) Thoughts on Men indulging in lustful media/creations?
I have a partner of two years. He does an amazing job of taking care of me. But there is one thing I don't really understand about him. He collects these volumptuous figurines, draws art of women with very sexual.....
Anonymous
(18-24) How do I get my friend out of the 1950’s dating mindset?
She’s 41 and single, and it’s got nothing to do with her looks at all. It’s because she has a very outdated approach to dating that barely even worked 20 years ago. She turns guys heads everywhere she goes and makes eye...
Anonymous
(36-45) What actually makes a guy stand out to you in the overwhelming sea of attention online (dating apps, Instagram, Reddit, etc.)?
I’ve always felt like I’m doing the right things. I work out almost daily, graduated in engineering, and genuinely try to be a good guy with strong morals and standards. But it still feels nearly impossible to even get...
Anonymous
(18-24) Is this normal?
Been talking to a guy for 2 months now, known him for 3 years, everything is going good. My question to guys or female who have been in my position is, is it normal for (John doe) to have a female friend who reaches out...
Anonymous
(30-35) Could she be interested? Or am I misreading something?
I moved to a different state about a month and a half ago to finish school. The last thing I was expecting was for a fellow student to catch my eye. For a couple of weeks we would make eye contact when one of us walked...
MexicanBagpiper96
Xper 4 Age: 29 Why does he give me such prolonged eye contact?
there is a cute professor at my school. He is a tall, white , handsome man. We are not familiar with each other at all. He has never taught me. We have never talked. Last year, he was getting off of work, we bumped into...
Anonymous
(25-29) What are crushes like for men?
What are crushes like for men? Like, for women, it makes you do dumb things like constantly checking if someone is online, checking to see if they watched our stories, wanting to talk about them all the time, coming...
Anonymous
(30-35) When she stops chasing… what do you actually feel?
Let’s say you were casually dating a girl for a couple of months. Things were good, maybe even great. But over a short span of time, like 2 weeks, you started pulling back. Less texting, less effort. Maybe because...
Anonymous
(25-29) The bible says all hard work brings a profit, so what do you think of my theory about this in the question?
Since the bible says all hard work brings a profit, I believe what this means is, that if God does not compensate you in one way for your hard work, he will compensate you in another way for your hard work. Some people...
Am I doing the right thing with her?
There's this lady I started talking to on Facebook Dating in December last year. She says she's been in bad relationships and doesn't want to date right now. I met her once in person for Starbucks around the time we...
tstarr17
Xper 6 Age: 33 Do you have areas of your life where you're more relaxed and others where you're more tense?
For example. When it comes to money I've never been that focused on it or stressed about it. But it always seems to work out well. People don't mind giving me money because they know I'm not after their money. I don't...
Lynx122
Master Age: 36 Would you ever date someone who couldn't speak the same language as you?
I met this guy last year whilst working together. He knows no English and we used to communicate through just joking around and one or two words. We got on really well even though we couldn't understand the words that...
Anonymous
(25-29) How can I get him to pursue me?
I met a guy at a work conference. We hit it off as friends straight away and have been talking for around a month via text. I told him a few weeks later that I fancied him and I had been thinking about him a lot. He...
Anonymous
(30-35) Do you think adult friendships are overated?
I have friends most I've made at work but I don't know if this is just me but the older I get I feel friendships are so overrated. I have 2 older sisters who are very close in age to me and I've always felt like they are...
Puppystarfish23
Yoda Age: 28 