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I’m not someone who wants to make my parents worried but I think they’re easily worried sick. So I think lying to them by telling them I’m going to New Zealand when the truth is I’m going to Fiji for 5 days 4 nights. I don’t understand why my parents are so against me going to Paris which lead to me being forced to canceled my trip. This time I’m not gonna let them stop me I will just lie to them I’m going to NZ as a way to not let them have control over me but I have one thing to ask is Fiji safe for solo female travellers? I don’t want to end up get attacked there and I don’t want to end up regretting my trip so I’m just clarifying if it’s really that safe. Any tips and advice? Thank you.

I believe women are better human beings. There will be more women in heaven than men. They don’t abandon their children nearly as much. Men are weak and afraid, they’re afraid of their emotions, they’re afraid of other men judging them as feminine. They cope with women being better by being misogynistic. Men make up like 95% of criminals and cause war. They’re violent. They care about sex where women actually care about love. I don't know why men are so afraid of being feminine because if they were the world would be a better place.

Should I reach out to him or do you feel it’s awkward and not appropriate?

Yesterday my mom was in town and we went out to a nice restaurant and our waiter was a nice guy who looks like he’s a tad younger than me but we are in our 20s.. he was very nice and he was a nice looking guy.

He was attentive and he told us some of his favorite things on the menu. He did a good job and maybe in the back of my mind I thought he was cute and maybe said it but didn’t really think anything of it.. just a guy doing his job..

He did make eye contact with me even when just talking to my mom.. He did ask questions and asked how I got here since I’m not from this state.. I told him I was an art teacher and I told him how I stopped teaching in December to pursue something else and he tells me he understands completely and he just changed his major in college… did a 180 from film media to production…

I could tell my mom was up to something.. but the conversation was nice and he said he could give us recommendations for things to do and he tried to see if there were any free art tickets to go to the art museum.

My mom embarrassed me and told him I need to meet people and hang out and she ask him for his number and she says “maybe you have friends you can hook her up with “

It’s awkward for me and I tell him that he doesn’t have to do that or feel obligated to and i apologized… it was kind of a pause maybe because it’s awkward but he does say sure and he writes his number down

But I don’t want to reach out because I don’t know if he really wanted to or felt obligated