Search Results: things guys look for

Will she come back are we working things out opinions?

me and my ex broke up back in beginning of June then in August we started talking again. We broke up because I accused her of cheating someone she works with causing drama and me feeding into her coworkers drama and her...

G0lden0ut22

Xper 3 Age: 29

Why did he left me for another girl?

My boyfriend left me for another girl actually he secretly started flirting with her when he was with me that is considered cheating right? I was so loyal to him when i was with him, our affair lasted for 1.5 years. by...

berrybutter

Xper 1 Age: 24

Family & Friends

Do you make friends organically?

There is a trope that guys and girls can't be just friends. I disagree. I think people don't look for friends from the right perspective. I make friends with people, because we're interested in the same thing. I've never...

Twalli

Master Age: 35

Why Men Like to Look at Women - Women Show More Skin

It's been scientifically shown that men are visual creatures, so it should be no surprise that men like to look at things, especially pretty things. But why do men especially like to look at women? This short myTake...

AviatorTom

Master Age: 59

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Do you assume a guy's act of kindness is because he's attracted to you?

Someome else asked this question about acts of kindness. I've never had any major acts detailed like his, but it got me wondering what I consider an act of kindness. Last week I talked to a cashier about a fragrance she...

Anonymous

(25-29)

Should I go out on a couple of dates with her?

I went out with my buddy last weekend to a bar. My buddy and I were sitting down and a girl came over to me and was explaining to me that her friend was interested in me. I ended up talking to her friend and we have a lot...

EarthEagle11022

Xper 5 Age: 27

Relationships

Learn to Let Them Go

This Take is more for women than it is for men. I’m aware there are guys who can't let go of the wrong person, but I still think this issue is by far and large more of a problem with women. Right now I know some women in...

ManOnFire

Editor Age: 39

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Why does he only see me as a friends with benefits?

Guy only wants to be friends with benefits (and doesn’t want to be seen in public with me) but he is courting and going on dates, trips (out of state and international), galas with this other woman for almost a year. They...

Anonymous

(30-35)

Religion & Spirituality

What do you think of this dream I had from God and how it might apply to all of our lives?

I had a dream I was talking to a very inconsiderate guy and asked him if he had been walking around with a woman who looked exactly like me, but much more beautiful and intelligent and he said, "Nope, but when you concern...

jennifer_bloom

Influencer Age: 41

Is it a common thing for taken guys to be like this?

i’ve noticed that i could have great convos with a guy, the sexual/romantic vibe is definitely there, sometimes we’re making eyes at each other. but then out of nowhere i found out they have a girlfriend. and if it’s not...

cherrieslala

Xper 1 Age: 23

A girl who constantly stares at a guy even catch her when I turn around?

So I had a girl who would constantly look at me, and I’d look back at her. But since women say one thing and do the opposite, I figured it meant nothing. There are other guys there with lighter skin tones, but she still...

Ask105

Xper 4 Age: 30

Guy I met online wants my address?

I met a guy on a dating app 5 years ago and we went on a date and then shortly we stopped talking. We stopped talking because he mentioned marriage and having 4 kids after our first date. I was in my early 20’s and not...

Anonymous

(30-35)

Are these things a man would do to just a friend, or only someone they are interested in?

I've become friends with a coworker (save the lecture, it's just retail). I believe we both have feelings and that's where it's heading, but he's scared to make a move (severe insecurity and risk of work problems most...

Louzey

Xper 1 Age: 26

I've become friends with a coworker (save the lecture, it's just retail). I believe we both have feelings and that's where it's heading, but he's scared to make a move (severe

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I feel conflicted?

I’ve been dating this guy for a few months now and overall he’s honestly great. He’s funny, kind, emotionally mature all the stuff we say we want. When we first started dating, I didn’t really notice he was balding. But...

Anonymous

(30-35)

Girl with boyfriend smiled at me?

Kind of funny how most women don't even acknowledge a guy when their significant other is around. Noticed that with the neighbor too. If her husband can see her, I don't even get a wave, if he's not around she'll wave at...

red324

Guru Age: 37

Women What would you tell your son that is 5'6 and wanting to find a partner?

Your son tells you that he's tired of being looked over, and passed on, its honestly making him depressed. He tried being genuinely good to every woman in his life. However he always gets rejected by literally every...

Anonymous

(18-24)

Does he like me or just being friendly?

I started a new job a month ago. There is a guy I work with who has been showing signs of being attracted/interested in me (such as being in my personal space like standing directly behind me/leaning in towards me,...

Anonymous

(36-45)

What is it difficult to be friends with guys?

Hi! I’m 20 and very shy. I mostly hang out with girls and avoid guys because they make me nervous. When I try to speak in a mixed conversation, I often go unnoticed. Maybe it’s because I take a long time to feel...

Anonymous

(18-24)