Search Results: understand guys

Does guy saying “I just want to be friends first” actually mean it?

Okay so I've been talking to this guy for almost 2 months and I thought it was going really well, we’d FaceTime eachother often enough and talk every day but, recently I went out of the country for a family vacation and I...

Anonymous

(18-24)

Relationships

How could a girl that used to be my friend and then blocked me be a completely different person?

This girl that I was good friends with from counseling group, was a good person who cared about her friends, was married to the guy she called the "LOML", father is a pastor, a brilliant writer and artist, pretended to be...

Anonymous

(36-45)

Dating

What do guys want women to understand about dating from their perspective?

Anonymous

(36-45)

Break Up & Divorce

Why did he break up?

I dated a guy for only a few weeks, but he rushed things really fast. He gave me money (even for my tuition), told me he loved me, talked about marriage, kids, and me moving in with him all so early , told his mom about...

Anonymous

(25-29)

Dating

I don’t understand, why would a great catch like me doesn’t have no guy hitting her up or asking me out?

I may not be the idea woman that is 5’3 or whatever, slim, or whatever but I am studying to be a neuroscientist, kind, sweet, loving, funny, smart, and always have a listening ear when someone is in trouble. Guys are...

Anonymous

(25-29)

Relationships

My friends boyfriend told her that he was falsely accused of sa?

TW - abuse and assault My friend has been seeing this guy for a while now. He seems nice and all. He doesn't seem like the person who would hurt anyone. But he's maybe gaslighting her, criticising her appearance and...

butterly248

Guru Age: 27

Relationships

Why does my sister and best friend think I’m dating the wrong man?

I’ve been seeing this guy I met at college for three months and I really do like him. He’s funny, smart, honest and he’s so cute. Love that he does not take shit from anyone. I really like him but lately I keep thinking...

Anonymous

(25-29)

Dating

Why do I keep thinking about my guy friend when I’m dating this incredible man I’m seeing?

Anonymous

(25-29)

Family & Friends

What was the hardest part of pregnancy for you? And Guys, you can share as well what a challenge was for you during your partner's pregnancy?

I was blessed with a lovely pregnancy. My only challenge was the caffeine detox and having to switch to soleless decaf coffee - man I was cranky about that. My husband, at the time, had me on a very strict diet so that I...

Greek_goddess_Iris

Xper 5 Age: 39

Flirting

Was there really something going on or was he playing games? Second part of the story will be posted?

this all happened in the mist of two weeks. I entered a pct program On my first day, I walked in and said good morning and sat down About 10 minutes later, this guy walked in I looked at him but didn't really think much...

Anonymous

(25-29)

Guy's Behavior

How can I get my guy friend to understand that I ONLY LIKE HIM AS A FRIEND?

He is missing out on women that may want to go out with him but he’s only infatuated and only want me. Yeah I went to the school dance with him twice but I’m just his friend. The second time I said yes because none of the...

Anonymous

(25-29)

Guy's Behavior

Have you ever promptly lost feelings for someone?

I did this morning. I'll just say that the guy I was interested in has violent tendencies when angry. That's the only red flag I needed. I understand getting angry at people, but the way this man was making violent...

Anonymous

(36-45)

Dating

How to decode dating an engineer?

I've been dating an engineer, we are late 40s. He was married before, and says his ex was functional with him, but cold. They grew apart and went separate ways. So he tells me he is not able to always connect with his...

Flowergirl33

Xper 2 Age: 51

Dating

Am I overreacting, or is this weird?

So I matched with this guy (36M) on a dating app. I’m 24F. We were talking about meeting up, and he suggested the outlet mall. I asked if it was just us, and he said, “Well, I’m not shopping — my friend is, and I don’t...

TiffanySpooky

Xper 5 Age: 24

Girl's Behavior

What is it about women that we guys fail to understand?

I think we've all been in situations where we really struggle to keep up with you girls. Be it in a romantic relationship or a friendship, there are things we fail to grasp, even if they are crystal clear to you. Maybe...

Tarifa

Yoda Age: 45

Dating

Girls, what the cutest or sweetest thing a guy ever did for you?

Hiya it's all in the title But I'll go first, had to cancel a first date due to feeling really unwell with the flu, he understood and still got me flowers and chocolates ans also brought me some chicken soup he made so id...

Anonymous

(25-29)

Dating

Why would my neurotypical crush try to hook me up with an autistic man?

I started university last year and I met a lot of people but I’m still lonely. I’m autistic and about to start my second year. I had a huge crush on this guy that I met during welcome week. We are good friends…. we’re...

Anonymous

(25-29)

Dating

If a partner is mean to you and unhappy with you , Why don’t they leave you?

Through the years I dated some girls’ that eventually turned on me by being rude and disrespectful towards me , that would make comments and sometimes belittle me or criticize me and compare me to other guys’ saying I...

Finchie40

Influencer Age: 48

Guy's Behavior

Guys, Does he have a point?

I’ve known this guy for almost 10 years, we’ve been friends and also had a friends-with-benefits thing in the past. During Covid he got into a relationship that ended badly. He says his ex faked a pregnancy and...

Anonymous

(30-35)

Dating

Should I just give up on finding men or dating?

I’ve struggled with dating all my life. I can’t seem to keep a boyfriend or I get cheated on. I’ve been cheated on, dumped and one I dumped. My friends kept saying to give my guy friend a chance since he’s the only guy...

Anonymous

(25-29)