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My wife and I have been struggling financially for a while, which led us to move every year, trying to save money and make ends meet in our hometown. Eventually, we decided to leave the state and move to Florida, where the cost of living was more affordable. However, I can’t stand it here. The humidity, poor infrastructure, hurricanes, traffic, mosquitoes, flat terrain, and lack of outdoor activities really get to me. I’m an outdoorsy person who loves hiking, cycling, and just being outside, and Florida just doesn’t offer the lifestyle I enjoy.

Now that my wife is pregnant, I’ve been thinking about moving to Colorado. It’s similar in cost to Florida but offers so much more in terms of outdoor activities and scenery. Unfortunately, every time I bring it up, my wife gets upset. She’s exhausted from all the moving we’ve done over the years and wants stability. Her mom lives here in Florida, but she doesn’t really go out much and would even charge us for any help with the baby.

I don’t know what to do anymore. I feel like I’m sinking into depression and hopelessness after living this way for nearly four years. I’m about to finish grad school, and our income will improve significantly, which will get us in a better neighborhood in FL or CO, but I’m struggling to see a way forward that works for both of us.

I got into a debate with another Gagger on this matter earlier today. So MY argument for why I think it's "Guilty unless proven innocent" is...

This was the other person's argument...

Yeah, that's how our legal system works, but what's the actual logic behind it? What specifically is it that makes "Innocent until proven guilty" correct?

I stand by my argument, and one of my professors in college made the same argument. "Innocent until proven guilty" just doesn't make any sense. And is it, really? Take that guy who stabbed those people in Idaho. He didn't even have a trial and the police and media were already saying the guy did it. So how is that "Innocent until proven guilty"?

It's Guilty unless proven Innocent. If you believe it's "Innocent unless proven guilty" prove me wrong.

Also, just because someone is found "innocent" doesn't mean they didn't do it. It just means they had a good lawyer.

Likewise, how many people were found guilty who were actually innocent?

And I'm only talking about the US here. I'm not talking about corrupt countries where police will lock up a random person just so they don't look bad.