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my mom was and still is a pretty toxic person. she divorced my dad when I was 3 and took me away from him and then decided to poisoned my head by telling me that it was his fault, that supposedly he never loved me and left me for her to raise me on her own.

I dont even know where to start on all the things she used to do to me while growing up. she used to

• take out all of her everyday stress and frustration out on me
• she used to scorn me whenever I stood up for myself
• always compared/contrast me with my cousins and kids of her friends who supposedly did things better than I did
• limit my friends
• limit my hobbies
• used to take off and leave me behind with relatives and other friends of hers

but it obviously couldnt just end there, as I got older she used to

• treat me like I always her husband
• was obligated to get a job and help out with spending (even though my stepdad made enough)
• pressure me to move out and "get out of her life" literally on a daily basis
• always looked for an excuse to pick fights with me and then acted like a victim when I would retaliate

and the list goes on. After High School I've become a toxic cunt magnet myself, in fact I have 2 older brothers who were in and out of toxic relationships as I grew up. I used to watch them go through all that hell that I promised myself that I will stay single because I dont want to be like them. but again whenever I break this promise the women I show interest or show interest in me always end up showing their true colors later on and end up repulsing to me.

till then I was always told that us humans will always be bound to attract or be attracted to people like our parents. Celebrities like Eminem are a prime example of this as well. so I was wondering should we children of toxic parents just remain single forever? is this our only antidote for peace?

First of all, don't get triggered by the question and immediately prove its truth.
We hear every day that women like funny guys or who will make them laugh but what about funny women? Surely men like laughing too.
But on average, what I have seen women are less funny or have less sense of humor than men. They tend to take offense and act defensively in most situations where you can just laugh it off. It can be mostly seen dealing with sarcasm or dark humor.
There are few female comedians out there and if you have seen them, you will notice that they are kinda boring. Sometimes they can be funny but it's mostly the same jokes and everything is about either sex or relationships or their ex-partners. I haven't still seen a single show of a female comedian without sex or relationship jokes, if you know any point out, please.
There are few comedic actresses but movies are very different from stand-up comedy. Movies are highly scripted and repetition of takes can make acts more perfect. Doing it for a live audience or on a date or talking to someone can be tougher.
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