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I sound so dismal but I feel my lack of results are simply bad luck. A lot of people have used the dating apps and had success, I’ve been on and off for a few years. I’m at the point where I don’t have the drive to actively be on them, I reply to msgs now once a day or every other day. I don’t want to hear it’s because I’m shy or my standards are too high, I’ve seen women in my same field (looks/education wise) able to attract the kind of guy I’d like so if they can I should be able to also. I get matches but the ones I like don’t like me back or the ones that want me I don’t want back. I worry sometimes I’ll be 40 and regret all these years I didn’t live it up and was so antisocial. I’m almost 30 and I worry it’s only going to go downhill as I age, physically and guys prefer younger woman. Maybe it could be my lack of sex drive contributing to being single? Honest and serious answers only please

Well, I do admit bold guys are attractive my future boyfriend better be polite or I do dump him.

Am I sure I would never be attracted to a rude uncultured swine? 100% positive.

I had two bad boys liking me before and honestly I wanted nothing more than slamming one with a hammer for his lack of manners and slap the second one for embarrassing me in public with his untimely confessions (times in front of the teacher when I would clench fists to stop my hand from gathering strength)

Jerks are jerks, whoever wants to reform them!

Thanks goodness I would never see their faces again in this life 😊🎉

I love daddy so much for the phrase 'I wouldn't mind entering prison for this brat so my daughter is safe, I didn't raise her to cry for someone I has to discipline today in his parents' stead' that stiffened one from going on with his 'jokes' in middle school ever since (good grief I had period of desperation at this time because of him and his gang of friends, if he dared to go for sexual harrasment I would've been the one in trouble for getting violent)

So yeah, I has that hatred for shameless boys, aside from the two who liked me, many likes to tease me and watch me panic or gets angry unless I scream they don't stop like sticky bugs.

Really girls, I'm not you and peopleeach has their preferences, but why go for a deal breaker?

As much as I love my daddy, I can't find his smoking behavior attractive but dangerous, I'm eager for him to reduce if not miraculously stop it.

Alcohol and cigarettes are red alarms when on a partner.

So I do never why some would go for drug dealers or ones with chunni syndrome.

The charm is great but choose your first love (at least) candidates with your head instead of hormones.

I asked mom about why women would choose drunkards she said it's because they're soft-hearted and usually easy-going.

I'm confused, sure dad never hit or screamed at us (mom, sis, me) when he used to drink before I turned 5, there's plenty violent ones.