Search Results: boyfriend tells me about past relationships

Is this a red flag?

I’ve had a pretty rocky relationship with my boyfriend of 8 years. Most recently things have gotten so much better, and I’m pregnant. However I’m worried it’s all an act, and the old him will come back. I’m 4 months...

Anonymous

(30-35)

Relationships

Does anyone else find it difficult when their partner has previous relationship trauma?

Me and my boyfriend have been together for 1 year now. He treats me like an absolute princess and is the best partner I have had. Over the last few months we have started bickering over things I would consider small and...

Lucyyxxxxxxxxxx

Xper 1 Age: 27

Break Up & Divorce

How do I tell my new boyfriend about my past without making him feel like I’m comparing him to my ex?

In my first relationship I fell stupidly in love with this boy. I felt like I had known him forever and I cherished every moment we had together. In the beginning it as perfect and all I wanted was his time. My birthday...

Anonymous

(25-29)

Relationships

How do I tell my boyfriend over text or in person that he makes me feel safe and I feel at ease and happy when I’m with him?

I don’t mean to sound cheesy, but I am also not good with putting my feelings and thoughts into words. In former relationships I’ve been abused and cheated on and I always felt unsafe, vulnerable, like something bad is...

Maxiebleu

Xper 6 Age: 28

Relationships

Why doesn’t my boyfriend take me out anywhere?

hi guys, my boyfriend of nine years barely takes me out anywhere. i asked him why he doesn’t and he says it’s because he doesn’t get any reward from it and that i’m boring. it makes me sad because he goes out with his...

Anonymous

(30-35)

Relationships

I have this strong feeling my boyfriend slept with this woman but am I horrible if I accuse?

This sounds very immature and ridiculous but I’ve always had such strong gut feelings about my past relationships and they have always been right so I guess it’s a bit of trauma here. I have this STRONG feeling my...

Anonymous

(25-29)

Guy's Behavior

Guys, Why did a player text back after 7 months? (This was also THE DAY after I started dating someone for the first time.)?

So I used to talk to this guy. I knew he was a player but it was mostly for fun. One day he ended it and I was sad for a couple days, but it has been 7 months and I’m so over it. For the past couple of months though, I...

Anonymous

(18-24)

Break Up & Divorce

My boyfriend threatens to leave I want to leave but can't but I lost my virginity to him and feel like no one else will want me what should I do?

I'm a college student and he works at a retail store since he didn't graduate HS. 2gether for a year. So a little background me & my boyfriend we started out rocky, I treated him bad in the beginning of our relationship,...

Anonymous

(18-24)

Relationships

Is he done with the relationship?

Anonymous

(25-29)

My boyfriend & I have been together for 5 years now, and we have had a fair share of ups & downs. At the beginning, he used to cause most of the issues due to insecurity or other

My boyfriend & I have been together for 5 years now, and we have had a fair share of ups & downs. At the beginning, he used to cause most of the issues due to insecurity or other things which I forgave him for & moved on from. Over time, I did individual therapy to get past old trauma and we went to couple’s counseling unofficially for a couple of months which both was extremely helpful since we do have communication issues.

Recently, we decided to go on a vacation & he decided that he wanted to go to Niagara Falls since he was picky about the destination. I created a google doc & everything for the trip to keep track of expenses & itinerary. Since I was in charge of the rental car, I got it, picked him up from the airport, & he had normal behavior. That ended when we missed a turn, & he advised me to do a 3-point turn to which the police pulled me over for. I blamed him immediately & he got extremely upset to the point he didn’t want to talk to me anymore even though he was still a little at fault regardless if it was my decision to do it.

Later on in the trip, he quickly realized he didn’t pack the right clothes so I gave him both of my jackets so he wouldn’t be cold. He tried to do the half sharing jacket thing, & I told him no since the jacket was wet & he got very upset again where he stated “you ruined the trip because of your attitude.” By the end of the trip, he stated how we’re “so different”, how he is unhappy due to thinking about all the bad things he’s done in the past to me, & wants me to be with someone better. I was shocked since I thought he moved on from it, & I advised him to start therapy since he stated he wasn’t sure what he wanted from life himself. He kept rejecting the idea of it stating how it wouldn’t help, but eventually agreed to try. I told him I didn’t want to break up since I personally wasn’t unhappy being with him & my happiness is my decision to which he said “it’s not about you, it’s me.” What do you think? We are long distance

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Break Up & Divorce

Please help me understand? Is it me or his depression?

My boyfriend of 9 years, and father of 2 children has recently received news his dad (who he is very close to) has bowel cancer. My boyfriend is also in thousands of pounds worth of debt which he pays back every month...

Anonymous

(30-35)

Girl's Behavior

I confessed to my coworker that shows signs of interest for me that I like her but told me she's in a relationship but why still show interest for me?

I been getting to work a little late and I just realized this girl from my part time job has been waiting for me it seems in the parking lot, then when I get in and to my cubicle she comes in about 5 min after me, even...

AnielloDGuy

Xper 1 Age: 38

Guy's Behavior

What does he mean by that?

Dear GAG community, Recently this boy who liked me in the past but I did not, but we decided to stay friends texted me. The last time we texted was in 2020 and we were having a catch up about mundane things like...

Anonymous

(25-29)

Relationships

How can I be less toxic?

I destroyed my relationship with my ex by not keeping our relationship problems to myself. Throughout the relationship, we said hurtful things to each other but he was the one who started it. He would say something...

Anonymous

(25-29)

Relationships

Why do I feel like this woman doesn’t like me?

I’ve been at a retail job over 2 years now and I will probably leave soon because it is really emotionally draining. I’m a college student and plan on graduating this year and going into my field ( entertainment ) So I...

Anonymous

(25-29)

Girl's Behavior

What does this lady have against me?

I’ve been at this retail job over 2 years now and I will probably leave soon because it is really emotionally draining. I’m a college student and plan on graduating this year and going into my field So I think I need...

Anonymous

(25-29)

Guy's Behavior

Why doesn’t he just tell me how he feels?

I’ve known this guy for about 10 years (we met in high school we’re both 26 and 27 now) Looking back at our messages there was always some flirting and we never really connected emotionally just physically. When we were...

Anonymous

(30-35)

Break Up & Divorce

Why did my ex totally disappear from the Social Media?

He used to post things here and there, but he has totally disappeared after he broke up with me, changed the city and started dating someone else. He doesn’t post anything. I know he hasn’t blocked me because we have...

LaFemmeFatale_1

Guru Age: 29

Relationships

My boyfriend does everything for me, but I don’t feel like my happiest around him?

This question seems kind of odd. My boyfriend and I have been together for the past 7 months. Our relationship started off very very toxic. We were only just hooking up before we decided to be in a relationship. He loves...

Anonymous

(18-24)

Relationships

Could he be with another girl?

so my sister has been in a relationship for the past 4 years but she has only seen her boyfriend once a year for the past 4 years due to visa delays. I told her that he is probably with another girl. Could I be right?...

Anonymous

(25-29)

Relationships

What do you do when your boyfriend is depressed and unhappy with life?

My boyfriend says he has always seen life as redundant, but after his grand mother died he really started thinking that more. He says things like he doesn't see the point in doing things if you're just going to die...

Anonymous

(25-29)