Search Results: scaring me away

How come people enjoy bringing you down in life?

I worked my ass off to get where I am right now. The higher I got in life, I had people continuously pulling me down off the ladder. I had so many jealous people around me that it scared me. I never told nobody that I was...

Paradiseequeen

Explorer Age: 35

Do you think life is not worth to be taken seriously?

I have always been the one to worry about things, When I was in LDR - I was struggling, I had my therapist tell me something very interesting “You never know if the distance is going to break you up or not. All you know...

LaFemmeFatale_1

Influencer Age: 29

My ex finally got arrested for domestic violence on someone else.. I’m upset that justice took so long

In 2014, I was beaten so badly by my ex and he got away with it every time. He beat me for so many years😭😭 we broke up and he was sending text messages to his phone as if it was me. He was also beating on that girl and...

Paradiseequeen

Explorer Age: 35

2 6 See More

Girl's Behavior

Friend going through a very difficult time, if she into me or just looking for comfort?

Very long story cut short, my female friend is going through a very difficult time and I've gone well out of my way to help her, listen to her emotional issues (she is a long time sufferer of depression and anxiety), and...

TallAndClueless

Xper 1 Age: 36

How can I comfort this little boy im adopting and get him the right help?

Me and my husband are going through the progress of adopting a little boy. We met him over a year ago and he's the sweetest little angel and me and my partner love him so much like he's are own. He's 7 years old and...

Anonymous

(25-29)

What's an animal you don't like and why?

An animal I've always had an axe to grind with are seagulls. Ever since I flew kites with my uncle in North Carolina when I was 5, I've disliked seagulls quite a bit. The wind was so powerful that no running was...

Rangers

Master Age: 26

Is it ok for me to explain to a guy why I won't introduce him to my friends or will that scare him off?

So, I'm talking to this guy and we went out the other day. When we went out he brought up about who did I tell about us hanging out I said just my mom and my one friend from camp. He said he told his mom and his friends....

CAPLOVE

Xper 5 Age: 19

Don’t you just hate when people visit after you’ve advised them not to?

So my boyfriend is off to school in the morning. Its faaaaar away. My friend guy that I mentioned in the other post says he wante to come see me tomorrow since he also has to leave town for some months. I already told him...

DizzyDesii

Editor Age: 31

Are these signs he likes me?

Few points. He invited me to a party yesterday. We met a little earlier and went there together. He told me I look good on the way there, then I got a little shy and complimented him back He bought me two beers...

Anonymous

(25-29)

If killer whales kill sharks and other whales, why don't they prey on us?

They've killed and eaten sharks and other whales much bigger and heavier than them. Yet ironically the only isolated cases of a killer whale killing (but not eating it) a person was in captivity when the animal felt...

DanaPonds

Xper 5 Age: 27

Is 5 months into dating someone and talking to them everyday too soon to say I love you?

I know I’m falling in love with my boyfriend. I think he might be feeling the same way because I just sense his feelings getting stronger. Would it be weird to say to him soon that I’m falling in love with him or...

Anonymous

(36-45)

Flirting

What are the best places to meet and talk to young women IRL?

Note: since modern dating and modern society as a whole as been drastically different post-pandemic. I would only want young women (ages 16-22) and young men around the same age to respond. I know not to try to talk to...

Wolfboy333

Xper 1 Age: 22

Eight Life Lessons: Told By A 23-year-old Girl🎀

I'm writing this as a catharsis but I'm also I'm hoping that it will be helpful for someone. Life is so very hard and sometimes we get hard on ourselves as well and we tend to forget or we live our lives unaware of...

Anonymous

(25-29)

5 13 See More

Would they actually do this?

I keep getting messages (anonymous and direct ones) from people I know and some of those I don't. The messages are so vulgar, they keep adding me into groupchats and saying the most disgusting things about me my body...

Anonymous

(18-24)

Who falls out of love faster guys or girls?

Been with a guy for 3 months now and im scared people say there's the 3 month itch. I think we are def losing the honeymoon stage and I had second thoughts about him for a sec but I think I want him. I'm scared he has...

kareenakapur

Yoda Age: 29

Flirting

Should you just stay friends if you’re physically attracted to one another but can't see yourself getting sexual with eachother?

So the guy I mentioned on my other post… I’ve always found him incredibly attractive. Gosh his smooth dark chocolate skin, bulging arms, cute little nose, lovely thick brows, adorable smile, nice firm American football...

DizzyDesii

Editor Age: 31

Has anyone ever told you that you might push people away because you're scared of rejection and getting hurt and you realized that they are right?

I was dating this guys but u fortunately it was long distance, he has never had a girlfriend before and was very inexperienced in bed. He told me he has an inferiority complex and has been to shy to ask out girls. he was...

Anonymous

(30-35)

Would it be wrong if I reported my neighbor to the fire department without talking to him first?

I used to do yardwork at my neighbors house up until about a year ago. He had a fire pit that was just a few feet away from some brush. I'm worried that he's going to start a forest fire. He's kind of a scary guy if you...

Anonymous

(30-35)