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ALMOST everyone will say personality is more important than looks, money, status etc.

okay... no problem

basically ugly broke losers are only rejected for their bad personalities. if you can't get a partner while you're an ugly broker loser, you should work on your personality the most

we heard all the time, "it's not all men, not all women" okay fine

so, when large age gap relationships like these exist (let's say she's 18-25 and he's 20+ years older), why isn't personality the first brought up?

why is it that looks, money, status don't matter but we assume these large age gap couples are only with each other because of looks, money, status and not because of personality?

why is that the first thought for most people who see these large age gap relationships as either weird or gross to begin with? why is it impossible to consider both partners may have great personalities?

you can claim you personally don't care about looks, money, status but why are you so quick to assume others do especially in these large gap relationships?

I am 30 years old, kinda broke, and I am back to square one trying to find a career path like I was in high school.

I normally work in tech. I have been getting a lot of grim news the market is oversaturated, according to numerous recruiters. It makes sense, seeing that big tech laid off more than half a million workers since 2022, and foreigners are swiping up these roles from H1B visas and offshore sourcing. In addition, AI is disrupting the tech industry, bringing a lot of uncertainties regarding the demand of human resources in the future.

I was terminated from my most recent tech role. in July 2024. I am thinking leaving tech may be action I need to take.

Here's the issue, I am unlikely going to be able to get into the healthcare industry. I faced disciplinary action on my EMT license many years ago due to a stalking conviction related to a former romantic interest. I have been unable to regain eligibility after recent attempts. I am thinking this eliminates me from most healthcare roles.

I am seeking a career where I can earn a decent upper-middle-class salary without having to return to school for long durations. I am hoping to gain meaningful work where I can use my mind more so than menial labor. I am engaged to be married soon, so I am frantically trying to figure this out.

Any ideas?