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I meet a guy a few years ago. We were neighbors. He started washing my car every week. I tried to pay him and he wouldn't take the money. I then found out he was living with his girlfriend at the time. Then they moved out. Then I hear from him a few months later telling me he has crush and wants to take me out and that him and the girl he was dating broke up. But then he kept making excuses when it came time to hang out. Then when questioned I found out that he decided to go back to the same girl he was living with. Now in 2023 we happened to run into each other and reconnect and he still saying he still wants to hang out and that he knows he made a mistake before and that he and the girl ended up broking up shortly after that. However it's been almost a month since we've been in communication and he is still making plans only to cancel or take a raincheck. He asked me to be his valentines and then said oh well I have to bring you the gift I got you early cause I'm working on Valentines day. But on valentines day morning told me he would be able to come see me. Then at the last minute says he cannot get off work and has to stay late and can we go on a date this coming weekend. He is consistently making plans and then canceling or asking for a raincheck. We have yet to actually go on a date. Am I just being paranoid in thinking maybe he is still involved with someone. Am I just wasting my time thinking this guy is going to ever step up? Or does he just want to hook up and potentially ghost me afterwards?

I met him through my sister and he’s a really close buddy of her from her uni, Few months ago I heard they were talking about relationsships and my sister said “my sister thinks the same that she won’t find a man and die single” between all this him and I were in contact but very respectful to one another but since this conversation between them he did initiate to take me out , my question is does he really think there could be a potential chance between us or since he seems like a genuine person who cares took this situation-ship as a sympathy to make me feel better and wanted? All that in mind I am confused he did take me out for dinner 3 times , we’ve really gotten to know each-other… it seems too good to be true and he wants to take me out to the bar tomorrow which I have said yes to.. he is a great man who cares but I'm assuming he feels pity that I don’t have anyone which is true, my best friend and I stopped talking.. maybe he feels the need to fill that space.. I don’t know I’m so confused.. I like him, he’s a great guy but we’re not in that level of asking each-other what are we..