So there’s this guy I am interested in and I believe he’s interested in me too. He has recently been asking me to hang out and has taken me to dinner/lunch and we do have a great time, but one thing I noticed is he’s not really good at asking questions about me. Now, normally I would say oh yeah he’s not interested this is not a good sign, but the more I get to know him, the vibe I get is he’s not as experienced with dating. And when I ask questions or bring something up, he remembers the details I say, and will sometimes bring something up as a reminder of “I remember you saying that”. He also doesn’t just talk about himself, it’s more of depending where the conversation flows, that’s how we learn random facts about each other. I guess where I’m getting at is, is it weird to bring up to him that I’m looking for someone who asks questions, or tries to get to know me? Or do some people approach it differently? Is that too forward, or too soon to bring up? Is there another way to approach that in conversation? We’ve only been on two dates, and he hasn’t made a move yet either. But I could tell he’s nervous and trying to make me a priority. And I do know we find each other attractive. Is just the way the dates go I feel this unspoken nervousness and don’t know if he’s scared to just ask about me.
Is this something I should address with him or is it too soon?
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He is a conversationalist and has the ability to interact with you as it flows and interrogate you. I think you may not be used to his style. Play a game. I am going to ask you a question and you have 3 sentences in which to answer. If I like then I will follow up. If not then your turn etc...