Will try and keep this as short as possible.
Met a girl on Hinge at end of October. After first date she said there was no romantic connection and we should just be friends and hang out as friends.
Second time we hung out we got drunk and we hooked up. Asked her out again a week later and she maintained she still just wants to be friends.
We text almost everyday. We tease each other all the time. Our text convos go on all day and there's only been about 4 or 5 days we haven't texted each other continuously. This doesn't seem normal. Even on her birthday when she was out with her friends we were texting each other throughout the night.
Whenever I try to make plans she either says she's got a busy schedule or she'll get back to me. She tried to arrange a meet up recently but then had to cancel as she had to attend to other plans on that day. Turns out she wasn't doing on that day. Our text convos don't involve flirting or sexual banter. When I try to take it there she either ignores it deflects.
Recently, she has been asking me to come to her place but it always involved her joking about getting something. For example, she has asked me to come round with a coffee, or to help clean her apartment, or to make sure she gets home safely after a night of drinking. But then after a while she would say she was only joking about the coffee/cleaning/making sure she gets home safely. She said she would never want me to do that stuff for her. She has given me her address on 4 separate occasions now which has thrown me off. For the coffee/cleaning aspect I told her that I wasn't going to come over.
Before she started giving me her address I didn't really think any thing about the situation. But after she continuously gave me her address and was inviting me over a couple of times I'm trying to figure out if she's just playing some stupid game. Seems odd that she gave me her address that many times unless she has a very short memory.
Thoughts?
Met a girl on Hinge at end of October. After first date she said there was no romantic connection and we should just be friends and hang out as friends.
Second time we hung out we got drunk and we hooked up. Asked her out again a week later and she maintained she still just wants to be friends.
We text almost everyday. We tease each other all the time. Our text convos go on all day and there's only been about 4 or 5 days we haven't texted each other continuously. This doesn't seem normal. Even on her birthday when she was out with her friends we were texting each other throughout the night.
Whenever I try to make plans she either says she's got a busy schedule or she'll get back to me. She tried to arrange a meet up recently but then had to cancel as she had to attend to other plans on that day. Turns out she wasn't doing on that day. Our text convos don't involve flirting or sexual banter. When I try to take it there she either ignores it deflects.
Recently, she has been asking me to come to her place but it always involved her joking about getting something. For example, she has asked me to come round with a coffee, or to help clean her apartment, or to make sure she gets home safely after a night of drinking. But then after a while she would say she was only joking about the coffee/cleaning/making sure she gets home safely. She said she would never want me to do that stuff for her. She has given me her address on 4 separate occasions now which has thrown me off. For the coffee/cleaning aspect I told her that I wasn't going to come over.
Before she started giving me her address I didn't really think any thing about the situation. But after she continuously gave me her address and was inviting me over a couple of times I'm trying to figure out if she's just playing some stupid game. Seems odd that she gave me her address that many times unless she has a very short memory.
Thoughts?
