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I’ve been single for 11 years. The first time I’ve been in a relationship was when I were 13 years old. She was my best friend and then confessed that she loved me, I didn’t want to lose her so we went in a relationship for 3 years I fell in love with her however she cheated on me. Since that very moment I’m not able to have a female friend or even fall in love with one. Women tend to lie often ( they’re not able to say the truth) and change their words. I love women and I believe there’s good women out there it’s just that I didn’t get to meet one yet. I’ve been dating different types of women with different characteristics and nationalities it feels like they’re all the same. It’s either the girl doesn’t want to do an effort or she gives false promises for meeting up bla bla ( most probably she’s talking to other guys as well). I don’t want to be a single guy forever but because of these experiences I’ve cooped with being single and I believe it’s a safety mechanism for me to conserve what’s left in me.

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So, I am a second-generation immigrant from a very traditional and conservative country, now living in one of the most liberal Western countries in the world. I am very grateful to be living here as the quality of life and opportunities are just a lot better; however, needless to say, the cultural differences are immense.

One of the things that always bothered me growing up was this "rush" to lose your virginity, especially as a guy. My friends would drag me along to clubs and stuff, and I'm not a bad-looking guy by any means, and opportunities for me to have "one-night stands" have presented themselves, but I never really had any interest in this.

Call me corny, but the idea of being intimate with someone I do not have a very strong emotional connection with, someone who couldn't be my wife in the future, did not appeal to me.

Guys talk about this stuff, and I am open about this in my friend group as I don't feel like lying about it, but I find myself being the subject of "virgin" jokes quite often, especially considering my age (which isn't an abnormal thing in my home country).

Now, I know it's all in good fun and I know they have no malicious intent, but I can't help but wonder if this would be a problem for potential future mates. So my question to you girls is, if a guy you were dating in his mid to late twenties said he was a virgin, would you immediately associate that with negative attributes? Would this be a problem or perhaps not your first choice, would you be indifferent or heck even prefer it?