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Please be honest although I'd appreciate it if you weren't rude, I just want to see what the results are and hear some feedback from the female perspective. Essentially the point blank of it is I'm not even close to an appealing partner.

I live off less than $1000 a month before rent if I lost all my spare weight & trimmed my beard, I am MAYBE a 5 out of 10 in looks. I wouldn't say I'm ugly but saying I'm attractive is just pity or comforting flattery and I know it.

I struggle a lot with mental health & depression & have enough baggage from multiple traumatic events to fill a C-130. I'm ADHD, OCD & Bipolar and even on my best days it shows. I'm medicated & in therapy but there's limits in certain cases to how much you can change because a lot of it is chemical because my body chemistry is all messed up.

My brain often bounces between giving me way too much dopamine & not giving me any which makes it hard to keep my emotions stable. Obviously its stressful not just for me but the people who have to see it & I have problems with my speech patterns being too loud on accident even when I try not to and aware of it. I also have a robbery felony from a guy I was lied to about him being an attempted rapist. "Vigilante justice situation but she lied."

The one thing going for me is I try to be a good person & make sure to focus on my partner to make sure I meet their emotional needs not just their physical ones. In the past when I've attempted dating, I've done things like bring flowers made picnic baskets personally to go on a lunch date in the park etc. There have been times where I listened to woman cry comforting them 6 days a week from 10PM-3AM on days I was busy running off 2-4 hours of sleep for literal months.

Basically, I'm average or bellow in every way except for the fact I'll do everything I possibly can to be the best partner I can, stand up for them & make sure they feel truly loved & valued. That's it. That's what I bring to the table. Love and respect.

For those who don’t know, Sexy Redd is this rapper who's known for being pretty provocative and controversial. She's got this whole ratchet, in-your-face kind of persona that she uses to try and get attention.

Well, recently she did something that's got a lot of people really pissed off. She used some AI image of herself photoshopped together with Martin Luther King Jr.

The photos show Sexyy Red like, holding hands with Dr. King and stuff. It's supposed to be this edgy, "sexy" take on him, which is just totally messed up and disrespectful.

Martin Luther King Jr. was this hugely important civil rights leader who dedicated his life to fighting for equality and justice. He was assassinated for his work. And now this rapper is trying to turn him into some kind of sexual object just to get people talking about her.

Dr. King's own daughter, Bernice King, saw the photos and she was furious. She called it "intentionally distasteful, dishonoring, deplorable, and disrespectful" to her family. She straight-up told Sexyy Red to delete the posts.

But Sexyy Red hasn't taken them down yet, even after getting called out by MLK's own daughter. That's just adding insult to injury.

There's even talk of legal action being taken against Sexyy Red for the unauthorized use of Dr. King's image. She's really playing with fire here, trying to make this iconic civil rights leader into some kind of prop for her own fame and attention.

What do y’all think about this?