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I have Asian roots and my family are pressuring me to get married because I’m getting “too old” even though I just recently turned 30. My boyfriend and I are waiting at least another year before getting engaged so we can pay for the wedding ourselves.

I know in Asian culture still being unmarried at 30 is considered late but a lot of my non Asian friends are also still unmarried even at 35+ and some are even still single - yet they aren’t getting pressured by their families to get hitched.

Just interested to know what the people of GaG would consider to be too old to still be single/unmarried!

I’ve had enough of this guy, I’m so fed up with the way that he’s treated me. We were more than friends then he friendzoned me because I found out he lied about his identity but then started calling me pet names and flirting but then pulling back if I engage at all. I want to say this to him:

“Hey so this has been feeling forced as fuck to me since about September when you double sent that towel selfie to me. I may act dumb, but I see you and I know this isn’t just about me knowing who you are.

It’s become obvious to me that our definitions of friendship don’t align and I’m tired of the confusing behavior. I’ll be spending my time on people who are authentic and don’t expect me to read minds or pretend I don’t know their name from now on.

Take care!”

Is this too much? Any feedback is appreciated!

Essentially love is what stimulates our mind and desires, while sex stimulates our sexual organs.

Agree or disagree?

Many people try to figure out what love is and all about but technically it’s going to be someone we find attractive and stimulates our minds whenever we talk to them and/or do things with them. They stimulate* us- more so than anyone else would. If we do a hobby with them or take a trip with them, we may find it more rewarding and engaging* when we experience it with them. They enhance the overall experience. Then the plus is that they’re attractive and the sex is fun and engaging with them as well. Liking them is what makes the sex better.

So love is somewhat and nothing short of: shared experiences with the person who stimulates us mentally more than any other person, and arouses us simultaneously.

Thoughts?