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I have no family and I’m 25. I live alone & I no longer have relationship with parents as they hate I’m independent. We have fought as they are angry I have a car & dad isn’t giving me rides everyday anymore, they are angry I have stable job & business, they don’t want me save , they don’t treat me like an adult so I don’t feel good see them. I always felt left out with family, my married brother doesn’t talk or visit me. His wife wants him only with her family & she has gotten jelaous of me before as one I tried sit next to brother & she got jealous fast went to sit next to him. Wtf. Last time I visited brother and his wife’s family her sisters and wife all ignore me pretend I don’t exist & just talk of her life. My only girl cousin is jelaous of me so she avoids me last time I went visit her & was just with her boyfriend daily so it was pointless even visit her. She pretends like she has a million friends & don’t need me due to envy& wants copy any single thing I have. I have a boyfriend only & he’s only nice person In my life that’s it. I never had friends that are girls as I’m nice & they are mean girls treat me very bad or act jealous. Whole life I enoucnter mean girls or girls that just want be with boyfriend so it’s hard make a true friend.

He’s best described as Jekyll & Hyde. He will be overly loving and caring one day. Then the next visibly upset, won’t talk to me, and seems very irritated by my existence. Then sometimes a day or 2 later he is perfectly fine again. He will sometimes say that it’s life he is upset about, something small I have done (like leave a spoon to mix my coffee on the tray), or he is tired. It never seems to really make much sense. He is also constantly convinced I’m cheating or being secretive. His examples if you ask would be im spending more hours at the office, but the reality is I’m spending at least an hour less a day in the office because he was getting so upset. Now I leave early and finish at home. At this point it just feels like he wants to hate me or be upset with me. When I try to understand he says things that aren’t true. When I try to talk to my friends because I feel crazy they think he has serious issues and I’m his punching bag. I have quite a few examples of behavior that I can’t rationalize or understand. Like he will sit on his phone while I make dinner and clean up. As soon as I sit down to eat if I touch my phone he’ll make a comment how my attention is to everything but him. But when I try to give him my undivided attention he finds me annoying. Very confused girl over here.