Because of the industry I work in I tend to have mainly male co workers. I usually befriend some of these guys but one or two of them will usually always have a little crush on me.
The thing is I'm very honest and open with my boyfriend about this and in return him and his family tell me in being paranoid and think every guy who says hello to be is a rapist or something which is really annoying because they just don't take it seriously and make fun out of me.
I always seem to attract the sensitive, indie, left wing guys at work who are not my type at all. My boyfriend is more right leaning, very traditional and is a manly man if you get my drift.
One of my colleagues in the past tried to get in my hotel room at my works Christmas party and bought me a Christmas present and came to my house to give it to me which was super creepy, he always used to try and tickle me and would tell me I was beautiful. My boyfriend didn't like this guy but he really didn't care much at all.
My boyfriend just isn't the jelouse type usually.
Now I have this other friend from work and my boyfriend is super jealous of him and last night I had to promise I wouldn't cheat on him which upset me because I would never do that anyway.
I go out for drinks with this guy and some other friends from work. He can be very handies and flirty but he also has a girlfriend who he lives with and he's just a flirty person. We text and such in a group chat and that seems to really annoy my boyfriend.
The thing is I actually trust this guy friend because I know what he is, he not hiding the fact he's a flirt, he like it with everyone. If I gave him a chance I'm sure he'd take it but most men are secretly the same with there female friends they just hid it and play Mr nice guy which I hate.
I'm not a cheat and I never would be, I hate cheats and I'm not attracted to this guy in the slightest, I just find him funny and he's a good friend.
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You’re behavior is questionable.
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If I'm brutally honest I'm trying to teach my boyfriend a lesson too. He never listens to me when I have concerns over a guy and him and his family make fun out of me and think I think everyone man wants me it's really annoying and upsets me so now I'm not saying anything and acting unbothered by this other guys actions and it's making my boyfriend jelouse and I can be the one to say " i think your being paranoid"
Ok, don’t you think doing things out of spite isn’t healthy and will only make the relationship worse?
If you feel the need to “teach your significant other a lesson” by doing things in a revengeful way, the actual right thing to do is simply break up.
Just saying