Do traditional men get better treatments in dating?

[Anonymous]

Women love more masculine men with traditional gender roles, who will earn and provide rather than help them with housework or cooking. Have always seen women will date or marry traditional men and then nag rather than marry otherwise.

Traditional men get better treatment from wives, they cook clean and care for husbands, and boyfriends but if men help in those then they take those men for granted or feminine.

I have always seen the men who are most successful with women, bad boys, player types, or in general all traditional.

I can cook or do other things probably better than girls but decided to change myself after seeing the treatment all my friends are getting from their girlfriends/wives. Those women cook for them and treat them like royalty. My fear is being taken for granted and not getting that much love like them.

I was seeing some articles too that women actually hate non-traditional men...

https://hbr.org/2018/10/how-men-get-penalized-for-straying-from-masculine-norms

[quaranta]

That is not valid for all men and women, especially because "traditional men" often come with a bag of other understimated problems and very cringe hidden aspects that not all the women want to get as a compromise. I am one of them and I am especially repulsed, very actively and with no exception, by men who are the maximum expression of what the society considers a "true man".
I wouldn't mind a man who would be, in theory, capable to take a traditional role, but I mind a lot if a man is not capable to take any other role because the traditional one is the paper castle they use to protect their inner screaming child. And by my side, being a housewife is not the ideal way I could provide to respect a man, as I believe there is much more than roles indoor that can be pulled out from a connection with someone. And that kind of connection is definitely not enough for me.
More shallow women can't see these aspects behind and just feel genuinely attracted to those "true men" wannabes, but I started to see these things from early teenage and I very hardly "feel" the authority of any man if not proven by valid facts I find eligible to support the figure they (would like to) have. And even so, that doesn't mean I am automatically attracted anyway.

If in your opinion having a "perfect 50s wife" is better, that just means traditional roles benefits are a priority for you instead of compatibility and connection with a similar and equal partner, and you don't mind all the responsibilities and expectations the traditional man role implies in exchange (assuming you'd fulfill them all as well as the woman fulfills hers).
Some men can't stand those responsibilities, or find them pointless, and they find to be treated "better" by being respected in terms of equality (the woman works too with a similar career level, the woman has a similar emotional stability and rational management of the situations, the woman is independent the same, etc).
I seek for compatibility and my current partner wants the same, so your rule is not a rule valid for us, and I respect my partner by being equal to him, as he does (by the way, all my partners have been "betas", if beta means equal).
But as I said, if the traditional configuration is the condition -you- find to be "better", where having a committed housewife makes up for all the compromises a traditional couple comes with, then that is your ideal scenario and you better follow that. Traditional men typically match with traditional women automatically and you don't need to seek for articles and justifications here to "prove it's better", or to prove your preference is valid. Simply, if this is better for you personally, just look for a traditional woman who looks for the same, and that will give you the benefits vs compromises you seek for.

[LazerBean]

Yes they do, because traditional men tend to have better character and thus choose better women. However you have a very weak grasp on what a traditional man in.

[CallmeTheKnight]

Women love masculinity. So yes they do. However, you do have to steer clear of the women that have a history of choosing low lives as partners.

[Guy13]

Smart Post….

[Anonymous]

Yes in most cases.

[In_Trance]

not necessarily