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Do you really NEED closure?

"Closure" is a frequently used term but I'm not sure we all mean the same thing when we say it. For me, closure means hearing an explanation, having a a chance to ask questions and seek clarification, ending with no...
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How to stop worrying about my brother situation?

We are close than ever but it’s so painful for me to watch. He’s in the military and I told him it’s so hard for me to watch. They were fine until he started climbing the ladder. I want him to see his worth and it’s hard....
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Looking for some honest male perspectives on a situation that’s been really messing with my head all insights welcome?

I've worked with t his guy for years. We’ve always gotten on well — there’s been natural chemistry, a bit of flirty banter, and a closeness that gradually deepened. Over time, we started messaging more often outside of...
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How do I stop assuming that I've a crush on someone when I admire their qualities?

It's an irritating habit. I'll explain with examples. At my college there was a senior who was very good at studies, he also was really eloquent and spoke very well in meetings/assemblies. I really admired these skills so...
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Auditory hullucination?

Has anyone else ever had this happen to you? For quite awhile now I've experienced this thing where whoever I'm in love with or mostly connected to because of being intimate, well ill hear that persons voice a lot of...
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Me and a guy have just started to getting serious, but he pulls away?

I have been off and on with a guy that I got an instant connection with a year ago. We reconnected a few months ago, and been going strong for over two months. We have had a rocky start where we both had separate...
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I saw someone from my dream in real life?

I had a dream last night and there was a woman in it that I have never met before or seen before. I was just in Walmart and she was the woman that was looking at people while they're using the self checkout to make sure...
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Am I slow or dumb?

So in school I did get extra time for test and get broken up into smaller groups in my earlier years of school. I dint ride the short bus but still I don’t think stuff like getting some extra time made you dumb but slow...
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Why? What does he want? he is 28? is he gone for good?

we were ok the first trip he was ok 8 months he came back home and after 2 months told me i should have done x, when he said he could be their for me and I didn't do it. 2 weeks later he dumped me via text telling me not...
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Why my ex wife 31 got with an old age 48 dide?

For reals why most millennial woman want old dude in their 40s as their husband? And do not tell me that is because of money. I make good money I can say that I am rich. The dude isn't even rich , My ex wife works and...
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Do men get turn off when seeing the woman has dark skin in some areas and when she has stretchmarks?

I'm (F) 29 years old and a veterinarian, never dated a guy before nor did I ever been associated with a man in a romantic way like talking stage or like that. But then I got associated with a tall masculine cute man...
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Learning not to get too emotionally attached

Getting emotionally attached to someone is something most of us do without even realizing it. We meet someone who makes us feel seen, understood, or happy, and before we know it, we start depending on them emotionally....
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After wasting 10 years of my life, this is how I'm bouncing back.

Hello all. This is not a vent or a call for help. I'm just sharing my journey of failures, trauma and learnings from 2014 to 2024. I hope this might help some who are in similar situation. Let's rewind time to 2015. I was...
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Time frame between messages, if you haven't had a reply yet?

Someone I've known for years sent me a message (on socials) last month to see how things have been, then followed up saying they'd be over (near where I live) next month. We caught up a bit, asking how we are, what we're...
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Why do I get disheartened when I hear people don’t like autistic people?

I attend university and I met a couple of great people and there’s this one girl that a lot of people was so cool. She is funny, sweet, optimistic, fashionable, girly, sassy, sarcastic and can be a flirt at times. She’s...
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Would you date a head teacher?

I met this teacher at my nephews school. He has special learning needs and I sometimes come to pick him up if my sister can't make it. My sister and some of the school mums had mentioned there being a new dishy male head...
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Equality with men is not always beneficial to women

Inspired by a question I answered this morning on GAGS, the question was “When do you think women will finally be equal to men?” Equality is important, but trying to make women the same as men in every way isn’t always...
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Why didn’t he delete his ex?

My boyfriend ghosted me and that was essentially our breakup and we dated for over a year. A few months ago he contacted me and again recently. Then he told me how he’s been having sex with his ex hookup. So I started...
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Is it time to leave my baby daddy?

We’ve been together for 8 months and I’m 4 months along. I feel like he trapped me. Mind you he is an almost 30 year old adult. But it’s like raising a child. After work (if he does work) all he wants to do is play video...
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I’ve been on multiple dates with this girl (28) and I’m having a hard time understanding what she wants?

This girl and I started talking two months ago we have been on multiple fantastic dates and I felt like we really connected on all of them but the Third date we went on she brought up that she felt like she should kiss me...
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