Search Results: like the guy who rejected me

Even if I make the first move no guy wants me and I get rejected. What am I doing wrong?

Men always say make the first move but I do like send a dm I still get rejected. I’m pretty (saying this because I put a lot of effort into my appearance and people tell me it shows) and I’m pretty funny. The only men...

Anonymous

(18-24)

Why did all my ex girlfriends and dates come back to me after breakup/after rejecting me?

With no exception, all my ex girlfriends, regardless of whether I broke up with them or they did, came back to me either to get back together or to tell me that I am better than the guy who came after me. All the girls I...

Anonymous

(25-29)

Relationships

Guy seems emotionally attach to me and I dont know what to do about it?

For context, I'm a commitment phobe and we used to have a situation in the past where I helped him to get away from his abusive ex. In the process, I admitted my feelings to him to which he rejected me. Lately, he has...

Ofoceans

Xper 4 Age: 35

My male best friend demands all my time and attention even though he insists he’s in love with his ex. But he won’t let me breathe without him. Why?

So I (28F) met this guy (28M) on a dating app two years ago. We hit it off, but then a month later he started acting distant. He finally told me he wasn’t ready for a relationship… weeks later he admitted it was because...

Anonymous

(25-29)

A guy whom I rejected slid his open hand across my back when we hugged at a friend's wedding? What does that mean?

Anonymous

(36-45)

Should I ask this guy out?

Hi girls and guys 👋 I am into a guy, there were clear signs he was interested in me but had gone cold since the day before valentine due to a misunderstanding , and now he avoids me. I think I will ask him out , but I am...

Anonymous

(36-45)

Hi girls and guys 👋 I am into a guy, there were clear signs he was interested in me but had gone cold since the day before valentine due to a misunderstanding , and now he avoids me.

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Relationships

What to do if you are being stalked by someone you wish would leave you alone?

this guy i once loved (and no longer do) is stalking me. i dont love him anymore he has hurt me so much. he is 7 years younger than me and yet spends his life stalking me on the internet trying to lecture me on how to...

me122

Xper 1 Age: 32

Have you ever rejected a guy and later regretted it?

Have you ever rejected a guy who asked you out but later changed your mind about him or regreted?

seth900

Xper 5 Age: 35

Does he like me (HIGH SCHOOL LOVE)?

Hey, I'm in grade 11, and my intuition has been telling me that this guy has been liking me since grade 10. Everytime he came in through our class' door, he looked at me. We never talked in grade 10 but recently, we got...

Anonymous

(18-24)

Girls, honest advice girls, if a guy has been rejected a lot what should he do to fix himself and seem more attractive?

Let's just say he has a good education, he takes care of his hygiene, he does have a sense of humour, good work ethic, has a job, takes care of his health and physique and he's not some weird, aggressive, sexist guy. He's...

Anonymous

(30-35)

Why is it OK to hate on men for their hobby, but the moment we put women's hobbies down we are suddenly sexist hateful misogynistic pigs?

Question was inspired by a worthless pink anon who shat on all men who play video games. I responded by telling her that rejecting someone due to a hobby was idiotic and childish at best. I further asked how she would...

Anonymous

(36-45)

He cancelled our first date then rescheduled, but I'm not interested anymore?

Been talking to a guy from dating app for about 3 weeks. He was away for work for a week and we kept in touch daily. He then proposed that we have a date that next weekend, to which I agreed. So in my mind, we had a plan...

Anonymous

(36-45)

Relationships

Is it a good idea to work with someone who rejected you in the past?

To cut the story short, i once had feelings for a guy friend. He works for me as I subcontracted him for a project. He rejected me saying he is prioritizing his family (it turned out he had a partner back then) i honestly...

Ofoceansbeaches

Xper 5 Age: 32

Is it wrong to tell a guy who rejected you subtly harshly that you want to off yourself?

I never wanted this shit lol I thought he was a genuine guy who did care … guess he wasn’t attracted to me or felt he can do better after the date and kind of ghosted and then gave some closure. After a month I feel...

Anonymous

(25-29)

I mix love and pity for each other - what to do?

Here’s the part of the story - I haven’t told. I was talking to my cousin on phone and she reminded that in the beginning of dating, I felt pity to my now-ex (The one that was Chinese) and she reminded me that - I was...

LaFemmeFatale_1

Influencer Age: 29

Education & Career

What am I doing wrong?

I’m a 22 year old guy who got his Bachelors degree in January 2023 in Data Science/Tech management. I have 4 months of experience at an insurance firm and 5 months of experience at government. It’s been 5 months of...

Celticsaretrash

Xper 2 Age: 23

Girls, age 26 and older: if you turn down a guy's request for a first date, what is the usual explanation?

I think what guys assume when they get rejected is quite different from what women think when rejecting a guy, so let's get it out in the open. If a guy asks you for a first date and you turn down the request, what is the...

OlderAndWiser

Influencer Age: 71

I think what guys assume when they get rejected is quite different from what women think when rejecting a guy, so let's get it out in the open. If a guy asks you for a first date and

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Why did he act interested first and reject me a month later?

Caught a guy checking me out pretty much every day, when we talked he was very friendly and kept extending the conversation, asked about my plans for tonight, weekend, hobbies and interests, where I live and especially my...

Anonymous

(25-29)