Have you ever rejected a guy and later regretted it?

[seth900]

Have you ever rejected a guy who asked you out but later changed your mind about him or regreted?

[Rosexøxø]

I think out of guilt and how I delivered it.

I felt regret when I played too hard to get and I found out I really just came across as rude. I was really hoping I was an exceptional difference to him, but I wasted probably a genuine friendship and good paced highschool relationship.

I’m not crazy sexual but would’ve been nice to try some things with him. At least be able to say I had highschool sweethearts or so.

I was always too damn tough on the guys. 😆 I probably seemed like an uppity boy hater. In all honesty I did also protect myself from some boys who truly would’ve never cared and could’ve hurt me, and I could’ve easily developed the wrong ideas about love because of sexuality. Many times their book ends but they didn’t come out exactly the same. Many times they’re just two sides to the coin of humanity and some are more developed on one side than the other. Not EVERYONE is ambidextrous lol

[Rosexøxø]

Metaphorically speaking and in the context of multiple tasks. Some guys and girls are ambidextrous when it comes to sexuality lmao

[Valdemort]

This is so relatable

[Valdemort]

Well, I didn't know I had rejected someone until much later. Learning that did make me feel a bit sad, because I really liked the guy but didn't understand what he was trying to do.
Not sure if I necessarily regret it.

[ProbablyClueless]

What do you mean when you say that you didn't understand what he was trying to do? Do you know what caused you to be confused?

[Valdemort]

He wanted to kiss me, and I didn't realise.

A couple of years ago I went on vacation and this guy who worked at my residence would regularly come over to have a conversation.
One night my friends and I went to a bar and he was there with his colleagues as well. While everyone was dancing, I sat at a table and he took a seat by my side. We had this ongoing conversation and at some point he leaned in and tucked my hair behind my ear.
I hadn't ever kissed anyone, so I was literally clueless about the hint and pretty much said to him "What are you doing? 🤨🤷🏼‍♀️" (including those expressions, lol).
He kinda laughed about it, but then shrugged it off. I never realised that was his intention until others commented on it.

There's a whole story to it, but that's kinda how I failed to see what was going on.

[ProbablyClueless]

Gotcha! That's never a good feeling lol

[Drew-1990]

I had the opposite, One girl rejected me and later after she screwed up here life she thought asking me out realizing I would have been good for here, was too late by then.

Another girl wouldn't give me the time of the day because of how shy I was, started hanging out with me in a group setting later and apologized that she never gave me a chance realizing I was actually a great guy, she had a boyfriend by then.

[JacobJordan]

A handful of women to my knowledge regret it. They turned me down because they made assumptions about me and then found out a bit later that I had money and suddenly they were very interested in me but too bad for them I only ask once and if turned down too late no do overs just like in life. You make a mistake in life if lucky you get to make it right but you don't get to try it again.

[Summeroflove]

Never allow a woman to date you for money. If you lost your money they would leave you and take everything in a divorce if they’re able to. They will also play the victim.

[Summeroflove]

There are decent women out there. But men (and women) who have money. Need to watch out. At least a woman looking for a “sugar daddy” is honest about it. And isn’t wasting the time of decent men who want a real relationship.

But some women aren’t like that at all. They will try to act all sweet and innocent. But they aren’t. If you’re a good dude many times you can pick up on it. As the Bible says. The harlots words are smooth as honey and a man under God’s wrath will fall for it

[JacobJordan]

@Summeroflove quite true. The woman I married didn't know I had money and then stayed with me when I lost most of it and rebuilt it all. She is Eastern European so wasn't surprised she stayed she is far more feminine than most women I have met in the last 20 ish years

[Summeroflove]

I’m glad you have found someone whose a genuinely good person.

[bobalife]

Yeah… 🙊 but not very often. It’s too late to do anything about it I am sure, so I don’t say anything. I’m sure he is probably moved on now or trying to move on after it.

[moneymagnet24]

Feel blessed at least someone on earth find you worthy aunty.

[bobalife]

I’m not the ur aunty and I’m doin great ty

[moneymagnet24]

You're my favourite aunty

[bobalife]

I’m everyone’s favorite aunty😌

[Summeroflove]

I think many people have rejected someone who they regretted or maybe never made a move on someone and they regret it.

But a lot of times. If they move on and have found someone else. Just be happy for them.

[TJ0788]

I got a kick out of reading some of the responses. Some of y’all out there handing rejections out like Oprah, meanwhile, I’m pretty sure I have never rejected anybody…except perhaps one time. I think it was in high school I rejected someone without actively and consciously doing so. I was just really awkward and horrendously shy at the time, so nothing became of a little flirtation.

[Anonymous]

Sometimes I do, especially if the guy was really nice but then I remember that I rejected that person for a reason and if I ended up dating the guy then I would've been unhappy and that it wouldn't be fair to either of us.

[Biancam13]

No. Generally, when I reject a guy it's because there's a lack of attraction and he is not my type. That generally does not change.

[DizzyDesii]

Only if i had to reject him because i wasn't single or emotionally available at the time

[Nikki1989]

No, I have never made that mistake.

[jadeXcatastro62]

Yes I do this all the time. If I reject a guy I immediately regret 😭

[moneymagnet24]

😂😂😂

[Summeroflove]

I mean. You can always reach back out to them. So long as they aren’t in a new relationship

[TenderFantasy]

Once. And then I got stuck in an on again, off again relationship for several years.

[IslaTheWitch]

I've rejected a guy, but I didn't regret it...

[WhitneySnow]

No but one of my friends did and she said yes when he asked her out the second time

[KrakenAttackin]

After they are post-wall single mothers, they often try to capture the, then average, now successful guy. Of course they will divorce rape him an average of eight years later.

[SolitarySolace]

Women don’t give a fuck to honestly think women actually care? Give me a break

[12karen]

yes I rejected him because I thought he wasn't serious then I didn't see him again, and I regretted it, he was a good friend of mine

[PrettyCrumblBb]

Nope. I reject guys I'm not compatible with.

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[undertaker007]

How do you know if the person is compatible if you never got the chance to know them outside of a bar or event he was not comfortable in.

[Jmmmfi4]

ARE YOU KIDDING? THEY GET OFF ON IT

[whistlingwh0res]

all the time but then if I approach they run

[PBandJ_Nerd]

Nope, not yet.

[Yannae]

I always stand by what I say! No is no!

[seth900]

There was this girl i was chasing for almost a half a year and she rejected me 3 times and once i completely dissapeared and stopped being interested in her i did wrote her how she is. But than again didn't seeked her she changes her mind about me and than she looked for me but than i was not interested anymore.

[Yannae]

Had something similar with a crush. She did not age well.

[sheikalana]

Never happened to me.

[imawfulatusernames]

Honestly no. I’ve said yes and regretted it though

[TenderFantasy]

Lol same.

[Anonymous]

Only a couple times.

[rolandelcid]

I miss the sex.

[EsanuElena]

No I can't say I have

[electromagnetic]

Nope. Never.

[Anonymous]

I'm sure that happens.

[Agape93]

Nope

[Ms_Facesitter]

No, not once.

[Akam93]

No and no.

[Peridot25]

Absolutely not

[litty736]

Nope

[Minahh]

Nope