Search Results: abusive relationship

Am I treating my ex unfairly?

I know this might not be important but…. My relationship ended with my first ex last year in late June. He cheated on me and gave me an infection. The relationship ended there and I never gave him another chance. I met...

Anonymous

(18-24)

Marriage & Weddings

Do you believe somebody who takes care of you is more valuable than somebody you are deeply attracted to intellectually or physically or socially?

I was watching a YouTube video of a marriage that ended in divorce and I saw the man married a woman that was so beautiful, you could go years without finding somebody who looked more attractive, but all she had was good...

jennifer_bloom

Influencer Age: 41

How to help coworker about domestic abuse?

I have a coworker who is in a very abusive relationship. This morning when she came into work her entire face was black and blue as well as both her eyes pooled with blood. It looked as if not a spot on her wasn’t. She...

Cupcakesilver

Xper 3 Age: 25

Should I be cautious of her?

So I met this woman on Reddit. And she has three kids, and she’s my age. Anyways, I was chatting up with her. And then all of a sudden, she just ghosted me out of nowhere. I thought that was weird. So I didn’t bother to...

Anonymous

(25-29)

Family & Friends

Girls, do you NEED guys to have a great relationship with their mother?

If he hates his mother and his mothers a good person. Then I get it. If he’s disrespectful to his mom just to be. But it’s not really fair. Some people have bad childhoods. Some peoples mothers were abusive, ran off, or...

Anonymous

(30-35)

Please suggest. Should I leave him coz it's really hard to take so much of toxicity?

I ws in a beautiful relationship of 2 years wth this guy. Initial days were amazing and untill 1 and a half years thing were going great. I was so madly in love with him and so was him. We always cared for each other. I...

Anonymous

(25-29)

Should I leave him coz it's really hard to take so much of toxicity?

I ws in a beautiful r relationship of 2 years wth this guy. Initial days were amazing and untill 1 nd a half years thing were going great. I was so madly in love with him, always cared n respected him a lot. I literally...

Anonymous

(25-29)

Is this emotional abuse and control?

I have been in what I’m learning to believe is an emotionally abusive relationship for some years. Usually when my partner is under the influence of drugs or alcohol he becomes verbally horrible to me. He’s said many...

Anonymous

(36-45)

Why does she feel as though I’m judging her rather than trying to help her see what I’m seeing?

My younger sister is seeing a guy. He has a baby mom, who he still lives with and he tells my sister that he’s gonna move out and get his own place but he says he knows if he does that his baby mom won’t let him see his...

Egyptiannn

Xper 4 Age: 30

I dont know if I was being played or being pushy?

I dated a former co worker that came out of an 8 year relationship with someone who was 9 years older than her and i was 2 years younger. She claimed it was a toxic relationship and very abusive so her mental health went...

Erie96

Xper 1 Age: 29

What should I do with this guy?

We had been codependent in the past and he had a relationship while we were "codependent". His partner was abusive and i kept telling him to leave, go back to my city which is his hometown and i even professed that i see...

Ofoceansbeaches1

Xper 5 Age: 35

How do you learn to adapt as a 32 year old single man?

So I don’t have good social skills, look wise I’m probably hideous, I’m on the autism spectrum. The only relationship I experienced was an abusive one. I guess how do I accept that I’m simply not desirable that I really...

Anonymous

(30-35)

Do girls ever feel guilty down the road from treating guys like shit?

Like let’s say they broke up and throughout the relationship he constantly was giving her chances when his family said leave her because of how abusive she was

Anonymous

(30-35)

Guy's Behavior

Why and what does it mean when a man or guy friend plays the hero role?

My guy friend the last time I seen him he was being kind to me by carrying my stuff helping me carry some bags I had with snacks on them, by not letting me pay for my full meal he only asked for $10 the meal was more than...

Anonymous

(25-29)

Girls, If your friend was abusive in her relationships would you side with her and blame the guy?

Just curious if this happens or if someone stands up to what is wrong

Anonymous

(30-35)

Do abusive women ever find good relationships?

Or do they stay single

Anonymous

(30-35)

Girls, Is there any appeal in dating a guy who has come from an abusive relationship?

Or have I messed up my opportunity to find a good girlfriend

Anonymous

(30-35)

Family & Friends

Are you a bad person after going through an abusive relationship?

So she was verbally and physically abusive and it seemed if I tried say or do anything to defend myself her friends, our mutual friends and her family would take her side meanwhile my mental health spirals down because no...

Anonymous

(30-35)