I was watching a YouTube video of a marriage that ended in divorce and I saw the man married a woman that was so beautiful, you could go years without finding somebody who looked more attractive, but all she had was good looks, she never considered what her husband wanted, never contributed anything to the family, never gave in to demands if he was stressed out or tired or too busy to resolve the issue himself, and was never willing to give up what she wanted to support what he wanted when his interests were more time sensitive and context valuable than hers etc... My friend was aware that this situation happens in many marriages which is why she said, she did not even consider looks when choosing a husband because many people marry for looks and end up in abusive relationships.
I would change the wording of that first part to "somebody who cares about you" not "cares for you".
I'd like to answer this question but I think in trying I'd upset people that I have no interest in upsetting and nothing would be gained by it.
Suffice it to real, lasting love is rare. And it is never easy or without continuous effort on both genders part.
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I don't look for women to take care of me. I do however look for a woman who appreciates and cares for me.
Well, the one who takes care of me is still here 20 years later because I can't push him away, lol. He may not be the sexiest car, but he's the most reliable and scratch and dent resistant.
They’re both important but you should always take care of each other
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Just having someone "take care" of me is not what I want. If I'm not attracted to them physically and brainfully (smirk) then it would never last.
jennifer_bloom you like me am Pakistani
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