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These are what i need in a long term partner. what do you think?

- showing empathy

- good sense of humor

- communicates well

- listens to me and makes me feel heard

- Good Hygiene

- able to plan things well in advance

- is responsible (with money, work, etc)

- respectful

- is always on time or tries to be. isn't flaky

- gets along with my family

- At least attempts to partake in my hobbies even if they don't end up liking them after trying them out

- Doesn't constantly bring up exes proving they are truly over them and not comparing me to them

- respects my schedule and doesn't blow up my phone if i can't answer their text for awhile

- Shows maturity especially with her emotions

- takes accountability if she truly is in the wrong about something and makes actual attempts to not do it again through her actions

- Doesn't overreact to the smallest things that ultimately don't matter

- it would be great if we were sexually compatible too but i can probably overlook it if all else is good with her

Me and my girlfriend have been together for around 9 months and got into a situation yesterday.

Me and my girlfriend want to eventually get married but there's one issue. My soon to be wife wants to have traditional benefits while being a modern woman.

Let me explain.. Early in our relationship my girl professed to me that she wants to be a stay at home wife. Since she told me that, I realized that we were compatible. I wanted to provide for her and pay the bills and utilities.

The problem arises here. Yesterday, my girlfriend then told me she wanted to be a corporate career woman. We had a conversation about it and I told her, she told me before that she wanted to be a wife instead.

The huge issue here is that, my girlfriend wants me to pay all the bills, groceries, etc while working a corporate job for 60 hours a week, and travel the world while I take care of the children.

The deal is that my money is her money

And her money is her money only.

I told her, if she gets a job she'll have to pay 50/50 and she got really upset with me.

My question is, am I wrong in this situation?