I noticed some flaws in the first two guys. The first guy ghosted me, and I had to go through his Facebook account to see that he was already in a relationship and had more than one account. He talked to many girls about the comment his sister made. I rejected him and put him in the friendzone. . Jealousy is my only major flaw. My other flaws are not as bad, but I don't have many friends. Some girls bullied me in college and some in high school. Since it was a special college for people with learning disabilities, there. I'm not in college anymore since I graduated. From my experience with guys that I have met up with, I assume that good looking guys have more options with women and are players. The second guy sent ultimatum that i wasn't sure about sexual relationship and i did end with him and he through we we already in a relationship and through is was cheating. I wasn't at all in a relationship and did end with him , sent last message not compatible that when I blocked him. He was also uncomfortable with my mum being with me because of my safe reasons. With some men bullshit. I also don't want to date a tall man since they also have some bullshit to them. Most of them don't really care but still prefer to date women shorter than them but I'm not interested in tall men. I didn't know he was tall since we were online dating, but he kept sending messages to me saying I wanted to date tall men, so I replied no, then replied that I was only looking for tall men to date the guy online that I did block that tall for being entitled for 3rd guy did give me a chocolate, the third guy I met up apologized for being late and lost. Is was a very short date but is was a good first date. second date didn't happen last week, but he did let me know very early on that he was feeling ill, so we arranged to meet next week is second date.
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"The first guy ghosted me, and I had to go through his Facebook account to see that he was already in a relationship" No, it wasn't required; it's just what you wanted to do.
"Jealousy is my only major flaw." According to who?
"My other flaws are not as bad, but I don't have many friends." I'm sure there is an explanation.
"I assume that good looking guys have more options with women and are players." If you lump every handsome guy together and conclude they are all players, then you overgeneralize, and that is a major flaw.
"He was also uncomfortable with my mum being with me because of my safe reasons." Almost every guy on the planet would be uncomfortable going on a date with a 25 year old woman and she brings her mommy along.
"I also don't want to date a tall man since they also have some bullshit to them." More overgeneralization. Do you know that some people overgeneralize about people with learning disabilities, and their conclusions are not flattering?
"3rd guy did give me a chocolate, the third guy I met up apologized for being late and lost. Is was a very short date but is was a good first date. second date didn't happen last week, but he did let me know very early on that he was feeling ill, so we arranged to meet next week is second date." Are you taking momma with you?
If you are actually serious about trying to find a guy for a relationship, you need some help with your approach.
@OlderAndWiser first off i said is was my experince and yep my mum always will comes with me. i also got a learning disability. from my experince is only has be hot men that are players and cheaters like some of my previous ex boyfriend. last ex boyfriend did turn out be toxic. that one tall guy was also hot and rude. from my experince. there no way to get rid of my mum. so you saying then none of these guy are no good.
No, that is not at all what I said.
@OlderAndWiser no that was I didn't say at all to you also did overgeneralization me for having a type of learning disabity. that i might not understand some things. two i know not all men are same. 3 had similar issue with friends with some women. hot guys from my experince has be cheated and players. i also don't want to deal with men bullshit.