The truth is , most people in general don’t really know what they want , they think they do , but when push comes to shove , they don’t, , why so many relationships fail these days, because most people don’t know how to remove selfishness for each other , they will tell you they love you and tell you that you are the best thing that ever happened to them, tell you all these nice positive things and then all of a sudden , you don’t matter to them anymore. Through my experiences with girls’ through the years of dating and relationships , I had my heart shot on a handful of times , I learned to value my own self worth , I realized I can only give , what I want to receive , if a girl chooses to walk away from me and ghosts me or cheats on me , after everything sweet she was telling me before hand , I learned to just let her go , and realize she isn’t worth anymore of my time , yes it hurts and it sucks when someone we start to give our heart to , stops giving back the same in return , finding out that they aren’t in it for the long haul, they were just here for the short haul So the truth is , we can’t force someone to love us , both people have to choose each other, for any relationship to work period , for love to grow in a relationship , both partners have to remove selfishness for each other and resist temptations for each other or it won’t work period. we never truly know someone’s true intentions , we aren’t mind readers , so it’s a game of chance we play, when we meet someone new , or someone we feel loved us back the same that had great chemistry and connection with us , we assume we met someone that wants what we want , but sadly you realize they really don’t , so all we can do is hope they are on the same page as ourselves , but we truly don’t know period I honestly feel social media played a huge part on destroying relationships and people’s mind sets these days , most people feel like they are missing out on things and have a harder time removing selfishness for each other and have a harder time resisting temptation. , Most people automatically assume the worst case scenario when they start giving their heart to someone , they have doubts that this person is going to eventually backstab them and betray them cuz apparently everyone is a cheater. To get yourself out of that mindset the best advice I can give is to value your own self worth , realize you are a beautiful person , and understand you deserve someone that stands by your side no matter what , the same way you stand by theirs. Why it’s best not to give your heart completely to someone right away , wait until they constantly give back the same as you are giving , understand you can’t always be right and they are wrong , we are all not perfect people , so that’s all we can do , when someone cheats on you , or leaves you , understand that is their own selfish decision , not yours. Find dignity in yourself and realize you deserve better than that. You deserve someone that will climb mountains to be with you the same way you would do for them.
u You went on two dates and you were IN LOVE? Do you really believe that's all there is to love?
You liked him and you were hoping it would develop into a LTR but that didn't happen. Not the same thing as love.
Dating that begins with intense feelings usually burns out very quickly!
I AM SO HAPPY YOU ASKED WHAT WAS WRONG, SO MANY DONT DO THAT. I would ask him again Why you're not compatible, if that helps with CLOSURE YOU SHOULD DO IT
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Not sure, but at least you found out now, and not down the read. He definitely judged you.
He did this because he knew you were easy for him.
You did or didn't do one or two subtle things that he was not impressed by and decided to move on
Doesn't matter. Just move on.
Did he try to have sex w you right away?
