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I knew this guy for many years but I never actually talked with him much.

i started talking with him when my boyfriend decided to just leave me.

I want to start a family and I can’t wait too long.
this guy I’m talking with also wants to start a family and he’s attractive and has a good job and his own home seems stable and a good person,

HOwEVER, today I found out he has herpes type 1.

i don’t know much about this since I don’t know anyone at all who has this.

i got sad and scared.
I don’t know what to do.

it’s not genital herpes it’s only on the lips and I had never seen them before because he says they only appear one to 3 times a year if it happens at all.

he said he had it from childhood and has no idea how he got it.

what do I do?

I've been with a few guys that have been exceptional in the past. They were so respectful, they treated me like a princess, they made me feel so special and secure. Unfortunately, things didn't work out, mostly because of bad timing, unhealed traumas, relocations... Now I feel like it's so hard to settle down with someone new, even if they're absolutely great. I really want to be in a relationship, but I can't find anyone that meet my expectations anymore. My friends say I'm too picky and should compromise more. Even when I meet someone very nice, smart, handsome, I feel like I can't be with anyone less than outstanding. But at the same time, I've grown so tired of spending my time looking around and I really start to feel lonely. I don't know what to do. Both options feel risky, because if I keep my standards so high, I might end up all alone, but if I settle down for less, I might be missing out on something greater. Have anyone been through this?