Search Results: should i wait for him

Does he like me or should I move on?

I met this guy at work and I felt this kind of connection with him I did not really had before. And I believe he felt it too, he could talk to anyone except to me, and when he did he was nervous and shy. We kept liking...

Jayde21

Xper 5 Age: 24

I cried after making out with him in the car?

I’ve been seeing this guy for a little over a month, and things have been going well overall. He’s affectionate, plans romantic dates, and speaks about our future together, like going on weekend trips. We’ve grown...

Anonymous

(25-29)

Should I continue with him or let him go?

Jayde21

Xper 5 Age: 24

Girl's Behavior

Should I let it go?

So I've been friends with this girl for 4 years now and we've had our ups and downs just like everyone. We weren't so close in the beginning, she liked me and i rejected her but we stayed friends. We became a lot closer...

Anonymous

(18-24)

Why is a woman judged if she refuses to wait years for a man to commit but also judged if she waited too much?

If a woman in her mid 20's (24-26 years old) leaves a relationship on the 1st or 2nd year because she refuses to wait 5-8 years for him to want a family and commit to her, she's viewed as inconsiderate, impatient, pushy...

Anonymous

(25-29)

A coworker I'd been interested in is in a relationship but seemed willing to be friends -- should I just drop it anyway for fear of making it weird?

We'd been working together for the better part of the past year and got along well: chatting and banter, smiles and waves, that sort of thing. I did genuinely like her as a person, but I also caught some feelings for her...

boxlifterguy

Xper 1 Age: 26

Break Up & Divorce

He left me a year ago but we still talk like lovers. What should I do and also can you help me prepare a message to send him on my behalf?

We were together for years at online, we never met. we had ldr online relationship for some years. but for a year he says we are only friends. he doesn't accept me as his girlfriend. at first i really begged him to stay...

Anonymous

(25-29)

How do I overcome my fears and open up to dating again?

For the past five years, I’ve avoided dating after a traumatic breakup. The emotional fallout left me with social anxiety, self-doubt, and physical changes that made me feel disconnected from who I once was. I gained...

Anonymous

(30-35)

Guys, I got a woman's number. How long should I wait to contact her?

drivingjeep

Xper 6 Age: 44

Guys: should I go out with my coworker?

one night he was drinking a little bit & he reached out his hand for me to hold (i was standing in the doorway and he was sitting in a chair) my friend & i then sat down & were talking to him & his friend. the guy i like...

Anonymous

(25-29)

Society & Politics

Did you know who owns Californias water?

Agriculture uses 80% of Californias water and only produces 2% of the GDP of California. The Resnick couple took over a waterbank that was built with taxpayer money and now they sell water back to the state. And they use...

Lynx122

Master Age: 36

Why is my boyfriend so lazy?

How do you deal with a super lazy boyfriend? He sleeps all day, avoids work, and keeps pushing responsibilities aside. I love him, but his lack of ambition is driving me crazy. Should I wait for him to change or move on...

eniqma

Xper 5 Age: 43

Girl's Behavior

How long should girls wait to have a boyfrend? did you follow your own advice?

gowildcats007

Xper 1 Age: 15

What are some things that women do to keep you interested in them/How soon should sex be?

Men have so many options in comparison to women. I usually find about 2 guys that I’m interested in a year but sometimes no matter how great things are going, he seems to lose interest. I am interesting, a seemingly...

Anonymous

(25-29)

Can you say "I love you" after a month of dating?

I’ve been dating my boyfriend for a month now, and I feel like I’m already falling for him. I want to tell him “I love you,” but I’m scared it might come across as too fast and freak him out. Do you think it’s okay, or...

Anonymous

(36-45)

I dumped my boyfriend because I can't wait 5-6 years to have kids, isn't this a valid reason?

Our ages are 26 and 35 but when we first met in March 2023, I thought we had a common main goal of having a large family (3 kids at least) and I wouldn't wait more than 3 years. We had a serious conversation recently to...

Anonymous

(25-29)

Other

My whole life just changed, how do I adjust?

Well I’ve just moved across the country a few days ago for my new job and I actually feel pretty good. I feel a little tad lonely but I think that’s normal and I start my new job tomorrow so in a little scared for that...

Anonymous

(25-29)

Girls, If a woman had first seemed to turn me down for attending college, should I now follow her advice and start an apprenticeship in her field?

I got to know her when I was almost finished with college, but I couldn't find a job soon enough for offering something she'd be willing to date. I've now been honest with her like 4 years later and she advised me to...

scooogy

Master Age: 34