If a woman in her mid 20's (24-26 years old) leaves a relationship on the 1st or 2nd year because she refuses to wait 5-8 years for him to want a family and commit to her, she's viewed as inconsiderate, impatient, pushy and obsessed with kids. Some people will even side with the man and be like ''she's not worth it, if she loved you then she would've waited for you, love has no time limits''. So she should've waited more, even though 1-2 years can easily become 4-8 years, ignoring that her fertility won't last forever. That has limit.
However, if the woman was in her mid 20's (24-26) and stayed 8 years, has been patient with his excuses but then really starts resenting him for losing her youthful years and then worries if she'll have healthy kids or even get pregnant with ease by then, she's judged for not leaving years ago. Both men and women then say ''well he didn't force you to stay, you should've left on the 2nd year of nothing, your fault for staying that long''.
So she's judged for leaving on time, early on but also judged for waiting too long. Why?