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ALMOST everyone will say personality is more important than looks, money, status etc.

okay... no problem

basically ugly broke losers are only rejected for their bad personalities. if you can't get a partner while you're an ugly broker loser, you should work on your personality the most

we heard all the time, "it's not all men, not all women" okay fine

so, when large age gap relationships like these exist (let's say she's 18-25 and he's 20+ years older), why isn't personality the first brought up?

why is it that looks, money, status don't matter but we assume these large age gap couples are only with each other because of looks, money, status and not because of personality?

why is that the first thought for most people who see these large age gap relationships as either weird or gross to begin with? why is it impossible to consider both partners may have great personalities?

you can claim you personally don't care about looks, money, status but why are you so quick to assume others do especially in these large gap relationships?

My former girlfriend and I were together for the past year and things had definitely cooled off since around the holidays and I assumed she was wanting to break up. I thought Friday would be a good day to break up because she could be free to see anyone she wanted for the entire weekend. I forgot when I sent the text first thing Friday Morning that it was Valentine’s Day when she responded back asking if it was a joke. I told her it wasn’t a joke and that we should stop seeing each other and she said she understood.

Now some of our mutual friends are mad at me for breaking things off on Valentine’s Day like there’s some rule you can’t break up. Was I in the wrong? Should I have waited until Monday?