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So I have a profile. My photos are not revealing, not at pubs, etc. They show me doing a variety of decent things, etc. Like playing fetch with my German Shepherd dog

And yet the majority of men who contact me are obviously more after sex than they are after establishing a relationship. It's their rushing/push to meet, something they say, or something else that raises a red flag and when you follow up on that cue makes them unappealing.

Like for example this one guy. He asked me if I preferred to take things slow or "jump right into it". I responded slow... he responds with "you have to let me take you out to lunch Saturday". This was on Friday, we'd talked for a meager 1 day on the site.

I've even had men in entirely different states or provinces message me - I'm on the east coast of Canada & had people from British Columbia, Texas & Florida to name some - asking if I visit the area anytime. There's no pursuit to be a "penpal", and develop a rapport, just feeling out - by the way it's wording every time - if be interested in a hookup & go home.