Search Results: hurts first time

Just a distraction or rebound?

So i was hesitant to believe my current boyfriend (ex) just because my previous ex cheated on me & left me with trust issues so when my current boyfriend (now ex) was acting overly obsessed with me i just felt weird & i...

Anonymous

(18-24)

What should I do darlings?

I got issue with talking and communication im the type of person that need time so i can talk about it all so whenever we have a fight or argument and once we got home (we dont live together) i dont text him cuz i'd love...

Anonymous

(18-24)

Family & Friends

Why do they talk about/make plans around me if they aren’t inviting me?

The first couple of times I thought I was invited since plans had been discussed infront of me so I showed up. Only to realize I wasn’t invited after arriving. I have always been an outcast and struggled to...

Anonymous

(18-24)

What are signs to look for that the one you're seeing wants a loving relationship with you?

I think understanding these signs can be underrated at times honestly. But based on my findings: They are open with you about what's on their mind and going on in their life and honest about how they feel about...

Anonymous

(18-24)

Girls, No idea what to do about my crush, pretty sure I screwed up?

kinda writing this just to get it off my chest. There’s a girl, (obviously) that I have a massive crush on. We’re both in college and share classes together. At first, I thought she was into me. I made her laugh every...

Anonymous

(25-29)

Girls, Reconciling with an ex?

I'm tearing apart inside. Life's been going good, slowly improving. I've been getting better. And yet still I've always dreamt of her. Of reuniting and reconciling with her. Even through other women passing in the night...

Anonymous

(25-29)

Would you still get jealous even tho you decided to not pursue things further?

A few months algo I stopped talking to this guy after he opened up about not emotionally available and we just weren’t aligned with what the other one wanted which is fine, I truly believe he liked me, he once said he...

Anonymous

(25-29)

Family & Friends

What are some downsides to you as a person and how you are fjxing them?

1. Am a pushover. I'm working on standing up for myself even if it sounds rude sometimes 2. I forgive others too easily. Fixing this by talking to a few friends and deciding basic off a person actions if i should...

Anonymous

(30-35)

How Do I Look?

In what picture do I look better (my face is very asymmetrical )?

And for some reason I look so much worse in pictures taken by other people or group photos, those are the worst. I rate so low on those. I know about being used to seeing your mirrored version of yourself but still, my...

Jemini_Crocket

Guru Age: 26

How do I approach this?

I’ve been seeing this guy for a while now and today we were walking back to my home and I was complementing his voice and his accent, but then he turned to me and said I sounded aggressive. Now he’s white and I’m a black...

daniz2601

Xper 2 Age: 21

Can a relationship move on if it became healthy after years of not being it?

Hi. Me and my boyfriend had a not so healthy first 3 and a half years. There was lying, breaking boundaries, yelling, arguing, and so on. However, the last one year something changed and we stepped on the road of a...

Anonymous

(25-29)

What does it mean when a close guy friend ask for a break for 2 months? is it over?

So basically, My guy friend and I had a fight that actually lasted for two weeks and some days it actually started off small but then got worse with time. it's the first time of us having a problem also it getting to this...

Anonymous

(25-29)

Story time: How can I deal with a girl best friend?

My ex had a girl best friend from college.. I didn’t think much of it at first, and was happy that he was able to maintain such close friendships after colllege as most of mine moved away and settled. It wasn’t until he...

Anonymous

(30-35)

Guys, Does he just „need time“ or does he never want to see me again?

This guy I’ve been seeing was crazy about me from the first day we met. He is very sensitive and emotional and told me how much he likes me which made me very sceptical and wary of him. Last week he claimed that my...

Anonymous

(25-29)

I don’t understand why he doesn’t want a relationship with me?

I’ve (27) known this guy (28) for over a year now. We briefly dated and then he ended things saying he didn’t have the time and that we could try again when things were easier for him. We never officially “tried” a...

Anonymous

(25-29)

Was he blowing me off on our date or did I blow it out of proportion?

met a guy about a month ago, we’ve texted and hung out a few times in the last month. The most recent time he wanted to kiss me and was very clearly interested in me (physically). I told him “I know you want to kiss me...

Anonymous

(30-35)

Just shy of third base but no feelings?

Been seeing this girl for like 3 months. On Monday, we kissed for the first time. It was amazing and still feels a little unreal. We made out for a couple hours while cuddling, and she was SO into it. If we both weren't...

Anonymous

(25-29)

I’m so confused at this point?

My ex says there are still feelings there and hangs out with me without having sex, which we have had. Told me I can call him on his last break every night for work… I don’t rush it so I just don’t call him during the...

Anonymous

(30-35)