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This is a question about a colleague who I have a flirty relationship with. We did admit that we like each other while slightly drunk.

I was chatting with a mutual colleague today, and she was telling me that while I was away on holiday, she asked him if he missed me.

He initially said “it’s quiet” and she responded by saying, “if you notice it’s quiet when she’s not here, that means you miss her”

and he said nothing in response.

So he didn’t actively deny that he was missing me, could this indicate that he did miss me?

I’ve worked with a guy for two and a half years. We have a flirty relationship and we tease each other. Examples of him flirting include: prolonged eye contact, staring, gazing into both eyes and at my mouth, doing silly things to get my attention, showing slight jealousy.

We bumped into each other on a night out and a random person thought we were a couple. He said “I should be so lucky” and later on I admitted to him that I really like him and have feelings for him.

I asked him if he liked me/felt the same way and he said “you’re a lovely person”. I kept asking him, and he kept saying the same thing.

I then said “please answer the question” and he snapped at me saying “yes I do but we can’t be together”

We both drank a bit but he didn’t seem overly drunk at all.

Do you think there was any truth in what he said and do you think he meant it?