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For a while now (23M) I've been trying to move on and find someone to really connect with but every match I get when we text I ask how you doing and or how was your day today to really know how they feel today but I mainly just get one answer replies like "ok" or "fine" then I'll try to make it seem like I really want to talk to them and ask how was your week going anything interesting? It's either "it's fine nothing really" or something shorter like "been ok", I'm very sure it has nothing to do with the profile I make just a chill dude looking for someone to connect with blah blah, but I only get those types of matches just short and uninterested and now I feel like I am somehow to blame? I'm not sure if I'm just boring or maybe something else I'm not very sure. I mean why match with me if you aren't interested in talking to me? I don't know I'm not super sour about it just kinda makes me feel like I'm not doing something right and makes me sad.

So I really hit it off with this new sexy latin girl in Miami,. We've been out 4x and hooked up the last two dates. The problem is she keeps bringing up bills. Please tell me what is going on here;

1st meeting- I met her at a lounge in Miami, we do drinks, I drive her home she says "well I can stay with you tonight, but if I do I'll miss work the next day and will need you to pay me the amount of money I would normally make at work" I was totally taken aback and said no.

2nd date- I ask her if she is a working girl or something, she says no. That was a one time thing from an acute financial problem she said. We do dinner, kissing, no sex, no money request.

3rd date, Dinner, dancing at night club, but she says afterward her work schedule is tough and " what I really would love is my gringo to pay my bills so I don't have to work as much" Had sex first time.

4th date, dinner , dancing until 6am, total cost $650. On way home she says " I have a list of bills, but its not that that is the only thing I want and you can choose" she then lists all her bills line by line. We had sex again.

That Monday she talks about wanting to see her family in Brazil for holidays, but says the ticket is too expensive. I tell her I bought a Christmas gift for $500 and I can return it for cash value to put towards her ticket. She says that won't cover an entire ticket ($1,350). I didn't respond after that.

Tuesday I say good morning, and ask her about doing dinner,...(SILENCE) for next 36 hours,,,, then says- " I've come to the conclusion this isn't the relationship I want and your not the right guy for me"

Is this purely about money? She wouldn't answer my question as to what "issues" she was referring to. It seems insane to me if she doesn't want to talk now soley over this $1350 ticket AFTER I offered providing Christmas cash value of $500 WTF? Do I have any move here?