Search Results: am i not pretty enough

I live in Berlin and have a pretty tough dating life because every person here wants an open relationship, including married people. I personally never understood this since I always had crushes on only one person at a time and I believe that if you've found the right person you don't look around for other opportunities. Also I don't believe you have enough time and energy to devote yourself to more than one person given all responsibilities (job, family, friends etc.). Am I just prude? Do people enter open relationships or even marriages because they don't want to be alone while they are waiting for their ideal partner?

This applies to people of every age, including coworkers 20 years my senior. They would speak in an unusual annoyed tone even if I don’t really bother them since I’m pretty independent and ask good questions only when necessary, they would cross their arms, make faces or tilt their chin up to show me that they don’t approve of me even though we never had any fights. Many people tell me that I’m too quiet and not outgoing enough but that can’t be the reason why they act like this.

I started wearing glasses in 2010 and I always hated having to do so. But I’m not brave enough to try contacts. When I first got them, I got annoyed that some classmates kept calling me auntie and some even said I looked like my grandma. I was practically walking around near blind just to avoid hearing that shit. I once switched to the transition glasses but then was told i looked like a hippie. Once I got to college, dudes seemed to be more into me wearing glasses. But the dude i’m with now kinda annoys me with his unwanted opinions. He’s constantly saying “You’re so fckin pretty with your glasses off. You’re just so fckin beautiful with your glasses off.” Like damn, what am i when I have them on? Chopped liver? Lol. I mean I’m not the biggest fan of his glasses either since they remind me of the serial killers in The Lovely Bones, but he's still a fckin hot peter parker whether they are on or off. He’s just gonna have to deal and I just have to accept the lack of his compliments when I have em on because a mf cannot see clearly 😂🤷‍♀️ Plus the only time he seemed to be into me with my glasses on was when i popped the lens out of my 3D glasses 😩 #FeelFreeToList

There is a guy at work that mentioned during my interview that I seemed pretty cool (not necessarily as a compliment). He avoids me and acts pretty disinterested but can strike up conversations with everyone else. Do people avoid other people with a different temperament or does he just find me boring as a person? I don’t think he is the most interesting person either. He will act comfortably and nice to me in groups but aloof when we are alone. Sometimes when he is with others or when I talk to others he tries to get my attention by greeting me, turning away and smiling to himself. Does he think I’m not important enough to talk to until he sees me with others? Why does he act weird around me?