Only these extremely handsome dudes get attention from women on bumble etc. just being good looking ain’t enough, you just get ghosted by women.
These guys treat them bad, then suddenly ‘all men are bad.’ The fault of 1% of men.
In short, Yes.
Women have changed over the past few generations with the rise of social media and the forays into equality. Women used to see their role in life as to find a partner, get married, and raise a family. A woman's life was geared towards this end. I'm not saying the move towards equality was bad thing. It's NOT! But we are going through a time of social change. And social media has exacerbated this situation. Women still want love as the always have. But less want to fill traditional roles to get it. As a result women are setlling for hookups and f*** buddies for temporary gratification of her feelings. She knows it won't last. But it gives her temporary relief and gives illusion of control. You'll see women who sleep around a lot defend it as her "taking control of sexual destiny". This almost always leads feelings of inadequacy for her later though.
I think this will get better and that bothe genders will eventually start seeing eachother more equally. But I think this will get a whole lot worse before it gets better for at least a couple more generations.
Not necessarily the best looking men, though that's often the case (with men and women). The richer, the more influential, too. Men with the best jobs (gotta be over six figures for a lot of women).
Which is fun, because I am really really screwed, and probably always will be.
I'm ugly. And while I love my job, it isn't known for bringing in much money.
I have little to no power or influence. Any advice, (even when they pretend to ask), is pretty much ignored - and it's usually pretty good advice.
Generally, both men and women tend to look for people on around their "level" of attractiveness. So just like good looking guys like pretty girls, pretty girls like good looking guys. It's reciprocal.
I wouldn't say it's the top %1 of guys though. Those are, like, top male models or actors in Hollywood. Pretty girls who are not top models or actresses won't go for the top %1 in male attractiveness. They usually like good looking guys who are normal and who are in their reach.
If you are not good looking yourself, why don’t you give a chance to average women who’d gladly spend time with you?
Why do you go after women who already have hundreds of men after them?
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hot girls look for hot guys but not necessarely the hottest guys ever at all. they just got to be at least kinda cute. like as long as your at least kinda good looking you got a shot with pretty girls
if you're cute and not getting any matches, if your actually cute and its not just in your head its not because you have to be a model, your profile is probably just shit or your approach is bad
As a girl, I can say I do not look for someone based on looks. I mean you can have the prettiest face and look like a god or goddess but if your personality is just ugly and have a heart of stone that just straight up rude to everyone and is way to self-adsorbed then you aren't the one for me at all.
Good god.
98% of women on dating sites are SLUTS, whores, etc. They're cheap, pathetic, desperate and easier to get sex from than hiring a prositute. It's a known fact. Ask ANY decent man who tries dating sites - ask ANY decent woman who is harassed by losers looking for cheap sex because that's the norm - so you can get IN TOUCH WITH REALITY.
If your only point of reference is Bumble, then yes. In the real world it is far from true. When I was newly divorced, bald and overweight, I dates some models half my age and a Japanese actress. Looks only get you so far. The rest you can work on
People make that mistake time and time again thinking looks will keep people around. I would rather be with an average looking dude with a bomb ass personality over a guy who looked good but had a shitt personality.
I feel like I am living in the most deluded place in the world 😑. Women who are slightly older than me almost always say they find me attractive and women who are young always act like total bitches and just ignore me. How come this anomaly can be explained is so weird.
It is attitudes like yours that makes men fail with women. It has little to do with looks and the dating app thing, well you know most women don't take that nonsense seriously, right?
If said pretty girls derive validation and ego gratification from how others perceive their partner choices then yes, they go for the societal preference.
Online dating is full of b. s. just average chicks with ton of makeup and filters that make them look like AI.
In life it's the contrary. They're very imperfect, they fart as well, they bleed every month and share their bodies with just about anybody
Just look at how most women choose low value men, does that show you that they value you themselves. Hell no... they are who they're attracted to.
Speak to women in person, they're not who they pretend to be.
According to the good looking guys, it's not just pretty girls.
No, they look for the most masculine and the one that makes them feel amazing
I'm looking for the most qualified boyfriend to turn into a husband.
Lol they ought to be, otherwise they're settling for less lol 😞😆
Before modern media and photography, looks were not the only thing considered. Now it is all superficial.
Seeing how many SNL writers marry hot starlets I’d say no…
Generally, yes. leagues exist. not all hot girls would date only hot guys but they are a general truth.
General girls not predictable like guys when it comes the looks
No. We want interesting.
No, they ONLY go after the most abusive!!
If course they are.
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