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Do you think people gravitate towards their same body type when it comes to relationships?

Just a thought because my last ex was fat actually. I know there's a stigma with that word, but I'm just telling it like it is and describing him. Do you think most people end up with their same size of a partner? I don't...
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Just a thought because my last ex was fat actually. I know there's a stigma with that word, but I'm just telling it like it is and describing him. Do you think most people end up with Show More
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My controlling boyfriend?

How do I deal with being with a controlling boyfriend? He makes me tell him everything I do all the time, who I talk to. When he is in a good mode he will be a very caring person. I love him and I am hesitate to leave him...
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The date went well, sees my stories, but leaves me on read - what can be options?

Hey, I'll give you a little context. Last Sunday I went to a trip with a local tour company. The guide is a guy, 1 year older than me, he took 5 of us for a whole day. The chemistry was there from the first moment, he...
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My mom is pushy and seems to sleep over maybe even so my boyfriend doesn’t. How do I fix it without hurting her?

I 27F was raised quite conservatively (only child of pastor, homeschooled). Recently I changed my views on several things although unknown to them, however I did decide to move out to gain some freedom. I’ve had an...
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Is Monogamy inherently toxic?

Is the belief or ideals of Monogamy inherently toxic? For example Hollywood ideals we have come to know such as true love and soulmates demand both partners to be perfect for the entire marriage or relationship! Or...
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Is the belief or ideals of Monogamy inherently toxic? For example Hollywood ideals we have come to know such as true love and soulmates demand both partners to be perfect for the Show More
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Do you know your power?

I hope there are women out there who understand this. I repeatedly read stories of spouses (both working and stay at home) feeling neglected and it’s one of my greater fears about entering a relationship. Hopefully this...
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Test from girls?

Why do they test their partners so much? 1. Compliance do chores, tasks etc 2. Competency Dare to do things I bet you can't do... 3. Frame Control Changes your plan Doubts your safety 4. Rules 5....
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My boyfriend family is incredibly controlling. Is this normal or something I should be concerned about?

For context, I met my boyfriend online in June 2022, and we made things official in late August; we are also in an interracial relationship. From the onset, I didn't have issues with my boyfriend, and we had a pretty...
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Do girls tend to feel unhappy in their relationship if they can’t fully control it and the guy stands his ground?

So I just recently had a relationship where if I went along with what she wanted everything was ok but the minute I stand up for myself she was unhappy in the relationship and wanted to end it
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Girls, do you NEED guys to have a great relationship with their mother?

If he hates his mother and his mothers a good person. Then I get it. If he’s disrespectful to his mom just to be. But it’s not really fair. Some people have bad childhoods. Some peoples mothers were abusive, ran off, or...
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Im tired of this relationship?

My boyfriend is 34 he lives with his parents yesterday was Christmas so i decided to spend time with my own family, he wanted to come over to my place but i felt it was best we spend time with our own families. I have...
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How perfectionism effects relationships?

I am perfectionist. I know its bad but i can not control it. I had never a girlfriend in my whole life.
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What are some signs that your best friend's boyfriend is manipulating her?

My best friend has been given the ultimatum to cut me and her other friends off because we don't like her boyfriend's behaviour towards her. They've only been together 1 1/2 years. It started off well but in the past year...
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How to keep a steady mindset when it comes to this girl?

There’s this girl at my job that I really like. At the beginning it was nothing crazy because I was talking to a different girl that she knew of but wasn’t really familiar with. After I stopped talking then me and her...
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Is this emotional abuse and control?

I have been in what I’m learning to believe is an emotionally abusive relationship for some years. Usually when my partner is under the influence of drugs or alcohol he becomes verbally horrible to me. He’s said many...
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Why do men push their girlfriend away?

My ex and I had been having a lot of little fights which eventually ended up leading to us breaking up. We’re long distance due to situation that are beyond our control. I’m somewhat in a more stable condition. We had...
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What should I do with this guy?

We had been codependent in the past and he had a relationship while we were "codependent". His partner was abusive and i kept telling him to leave, go back to my city which is his hometown and i even professed that i see...
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Why does my relationship that ended two weeks back makes me question myself as a person?

My ex (27M) and I (28) broke up two weeks back due to distance and constant bickering. He didn’t want to work on the relationship anymore and I had a hard time letting go. I now in my heart know it was the right decision...
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I triggered my girlfriend’s eating disorder and I feel like a terrible boyfriend?

My girlfriend is 21. I’m a year younger, and I have realized I have been neglecting her. Whenever she would try and talk to me about her day, or her problems, I would ignore her and talk about games I was excited to play....
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