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Do a Guy and a Gal have to *enjoy* talking to each other for love to even be considered/possible?

I know there’s people who talk to each other but know how to keep a conversation going. It made me wonder about couples who talk and seem to get along well but don’t seem to really be into each other.

I feel like if one or neither of them actually enjoy the exchanges in conversation, then it won’t be possible for them to love each other and saying that they do would be somewhat of a joke.

Thoughts?

I'm not saying I'm in love yet, but we seem to be on the same wavelength. Like tonight we just really gelled even more than before. It's like everyday the chemistry between us is growing stronger and I can seriously see myself being with him for a long time. It's going on 3 weeks since the first date and about a month since we matched. I'm not sure if it's too soon to start falling in love, but I'm starting to have strong feelings.

Which I know is crazy but can you seriously put a timeline on love?

He's really nice to me but I found out that he write vile misogynistic on internet like saying :

"Only purpose of women is for sex"

He's also very racist especially against Muslim and Black. Said he would never date a woman if she dated one fo those saying they're whore and traitor.

He also commented on how he had sex with a 15 years old when he was 25 and how having sex with a woman inebriated is ok and not rape.

I'm not sure what to think of it because while he have said such horrible things he's the sweetest to me and have never been mean to me.

I went to his country for Holliday but he want me to stay permanently, said I could find a job easily but I don't speak the language neither can I read the words because they don't use latin letters. He told me I could easily learn it fast.

I'm confused what to do because I love him and even though he made mean comment, he never ever treated me badly or yelled at me or anything.