Search Results: getting over my ex

Is it normal for your Live-in Boyfriend to keep your relationship a secret from Family and Friends for 3 YEARS?

I feel really alone and isolated in my relationship. I tried talking to my boyfriend about every problem on my mind. He stonewalls me. His response is always the same. He goes into rage, threatens to leave, insults my...

Anonymous

(36-45)

Why did he secretly record us?

So my ex and I have been broken up for 3 months. I blocked him for the past few weeks and it pissed him off that he’s been texting me from a fake number. I told him I knew that it was him and to stop texting me which made...

Anonymous

(25-29)

Why so many girls invest too much time/years on bfs that won't commit?

I've heard the same story for ages since the 1990's (even earlier too); the girl either already knows the relationship isn't progressing or the man himself already told her ''I don't ever want kids or marriage, take it or...

Anonymous

(25-29)

I think he hasn’t gotten over his ex, what do you think?

They both were childhood friends and grew up in the same neighborhood, went to all the same schools and have a lot of mutual friends. They have been boyfriend and girlfriend since 2012 and broke up in 2020. The breakup...

Anonymous

(25-29)

Share an incident that rushed your process of getting over your ex in a healthy way?

hihihiok

Xper 5 Age: 24

If you’re getting over an ex, do you still check your ex’s social media after a breakup once you’ve unfollowed because you’re “worried about them”?

Sabrina224

Xper 5 Age: 27

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How can I refrain from texting me ex back or getting back together with him?

We broke up yesterday over false cheating accusations. He’s always mentally abused me & accused me of cheating but this time it went too far. I cannot do this anymore but it’s so hard because he’s constantly trying to get...

Anonymous

(18-24)

Dating

Spent the weekend?

Spent the weekend at my ex girlfriend's place. She messaged me Friday night asking what I was up too and that she didn't know what to eat for dinner.. It was her way of indirectly asking me to come over. So I spent both...

Anonymous

(30-35)

Still being intimate with ex if starting over fresh and as friends?

My daughter’s dad and I were dating for a long time before breaking up 3 years ago the first time (we kind of just fooled around after getting back in contact 6 months afterwards), since then we’ve had our daughter (7...

Myamay1377

Xper 4 Age: 26

Why can men deeply love you but hurt you with control and demands? Did my ex boyfriend ever really loved me?

I was in a LDR for about 2 years until we broke up recently, only two or three months before he was arranging his things to move to my city. It started slowly. He started by getting mad at me posting pictures on social...

Anonymous

(25-29)

Guys, Is there any substance to a man joking about getting married with a (sort of) ex?

My ex and I have had an on/off situationship for almost a year. He doesn’t want to commit, but I have good reason to believe he loves me. I broke things off almost four months ago because he didn’t want a relationship and...

Indigo74

Xper 2 Age: 51

Dating

I’m too scared and have no confidence to date again - how can I get over this fear?

I might sound crazy but here we go… I haven’t had the best of luck with relationships in the past and since my ex boyfriend I’ve remained single for the last 5 years. I just turned 30 and the thought of dating someone...

Anonymous

(30-35)

Is going back to your ex really that bad?

Is going back to your ex that broke up with you really that awful and desperate? I’ve never been the kind of person that could leave her feelings aside and I’ve been having the hardest time for the last two months....

Anonymous

(30-35)

Ex made out with a girl in front of me?

So me and my ex broke up back in February. We met up the odd time but it was just him using me to hook up. Last month he wanted to hook up with me again after not seeing each other for a month or so. So he...

Anonymous

(25-29)

What I’ve Come To Realize Over 30+ Guys

I consider myself to have a lot of experience with guys. I've made a list and have counted over 30 guys where there was something, labeled or unlabeled, happening. From age 14 up until my age now here are some truths I've...

Anonymous

(25-29)

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Dating

I'm getting anxious over this?

I wasn't into this guy but I still agreed to go out with him just to learn if there's potential. However just by chatting to the guy (before the date) I realised he wouldn't give me space (he wouldn't understand even if I...

Anonymous

(30-35)