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I have noticed when women say her partner or ex was bad, they just believe everything even when she could be completely lying. People only have empathy for women.

It is only men that are questioned on their actions and that are forced to be accountable.

My ex turned out to be nasty, when we broke up she was horrible. Saying I didn’t make her feel special, I was untrustworthy and a player. I didn’t do anything wrong, I was consistent with her in the relationship, I even had to show her my phone like I’m not messaging other girls. It wasn’t enough. I feel like I was such a good boyfriend, caring and available emotionally.

Yet to all her friend and family likely think I am such a bad person, because people don’t question women. I’m literally the rarest catch out there in my opinion.

The mistake I made was falling for the wrong person. Looking at everything on paper think this should be so perfect.

I didn’t do anything fundamentally wrong to her. I feel like I was good to her. She broke up with me. I missed her and tried to reach out she ignored and I sent her flowers (I really shouldn’t have). There was no message of who they were from.

After the first message she sends me a message weeks later, very business like and cold. Whereas initially I reached out saying how are you I hope you and your family are well to which she ignored. No hi or anything in her message. After we broke up I did unfollow her on insta which she may have not liked.

Anyway I’m not replying, this is the last straw. Fair enough I should have put a message / not sent them - but her whole response is just cold and mean. Even when we broke up she gave me a bunch of reasons saying I’m untrustworthy and a player when I have no idea how she could reach such assumptions. We all make small mistakes but I feel I was a good boyfriend to her.

When my ex broke up with me she gave me so many reasons. I took those reasons as offensive and personal as they were and pleaded for her back when I should have seriously shut her up, like she literally uses instagram photos of when she was young and beautiful to attract guys. She was so insecure I had to show her my phone a few times that I wasn’t doing anything wrong. Not a stable person emotionally and just a very mixed up girl. I should have destroyed her completely.

She made it seem like I was the problem when she was basically 100% to blame for the failure of the relationship. She was literally like I didn’t gift her and provide for her

My ex broke up with me. She is unbelievably stunning and from my culture. It’s been 2 months and honestly I’ve never seen a girl of my culture that rare and beautiful. It’s just like 1 in a million.

We got on so well and had a nice relationship. In the end she was mean and a bit offensive to me. She did seem done with me despite me being a good boyfriend. She did give me shallow reasons but at the same time at the end I could have definitely done better.

I reached out to her a week ago seeing how she is. She didn’t reply. Should I send her not an essay but a heartfelt paragraph and send her flowers?

Why? To know I gave it my best best shot, because in 2 months I have come to terms with I had the best connection to her and I will never find a girl from my culture as beautiful that’s for sure. Her features are so rare and distinctive.

I was in an intense relationship that lasted 4 months. Ending up meeting parents. I am crazy about this girl. She broke up with me, we broke up amicably. Then I rang her to try again and convince her that we should be together and she was very dismissive and low key insulting me saying I didn’t make her feel special, didn’t gift her (when I did), I kept saying sorry and that I can do more despite really doing enough. Then I told her not to contact me and removed her off of Instagram.

Anyway. Broke up. It’s been almost 2 months and I reached out just saying hi how are things. No like emotional essays or anything like that. I never begged her.

Is there anything wrong with that? She might not reply. I guess I wanted to see if there was any hope. If she doesn’t reply well at least there’s additional closure but I guess I will feel sad like I left with my pride.
But then again, is pride all that? Does it matter, losing some pride for a girl you like and then disappearing?

ex broke up with me not because l did anything bad, I was good. But she felt resistance and that we would clash. She was a little dismissive/mean at the end. She did say we could be friends.

I unfollowed her and told her not to contact me again as I was hurt. It has been 7 weeks with nil contact between us. It was a shorter relationship but we met each others parents, stayed overnight and she is literally the most beautiful girl in the the world.

Message: (I will start the conversation asking how she is)

I do understand there’s a good chance you may have moved on. Looking back on our relationship, I thought what we had was special and unique! Despite how it ended, I would like to try one last time to reach out to you as I thought what we shared was genuinely meaningful!

It would be nice to meet and catch up with you again!

I respect your decision if this is simply not what you would want.