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Okay ladies, say there is this guy who is young, respectful, loving, caring, honest, sweet, affectionate, smart, and decent honest good man who is a smooth talkin kind of guy and has the mindset of the loves perception of what it is supposed to be and perceived to be as “True Love” to have a long lasting relationship with you for eternity for marriage to love you, protect you, honor you, respect you, care for your thoughts and feelings, and only desires a relationship with you.

Now to get in depth of a smooth talkin guy, he tends to come with the most unique words to say that would knock you off your feet and stands out on his own as a rarest of his own breed and kind apart from his peers his own age than the typical guy approach women like “damn, you sexy or you look good type shit, can I get your instagram or number” or what’s good shawty, you got a man… if you do have a man, he’s the kind of guy who doesn’t care and say I’ll take you from him or whatever, you know dudes like that I seen on YouTube who are young dudes in their early 20s or 19 whatever talking like that when a girl clearly is taken and not interested at all.

But this guy I’m speaking of wouldn’t talk or approach a woman like that, he tends to ask how a lady is doing, what is her name, compliment her genuinely, and wants to get to know her genuinely for who she is and learn about her as a person if only she’d be willing or gains an interest in allowing him to in exchange of her wanting to get to know him as well. He wants to know her for who she is inside and not for her body or appearance. He is the kind of guy who prefer the old school kind of love when he holds the door for his lady, write her love letters, bring her favorites flowers or roses 🌹, and having a picnic 🧺 with her in the park.

As a lifelong single individual and a 45-year-old virgin, I've encountered repeated rejection and struggled to connect with potential partners throughout my life.

I'm genuinely interested in your perspective on what makes a person attractive or interesting. Given my unique situation, as someone who has been single for my entire life, what qualities stand out to you?

Confidence is an area I'm actively working on, and I'd love your insights. At my age, how can someone like me build confidence? How does confidence manifest itself to you?

As a soft-spoken, kind, humorous, and sincere individual, who smiles and laughs quiet a bit. What kind of approach makes you feel genuinely interested and respected? Are there specific conversation cues that capture your attention?

Considering my experiences, I'd appreciate your thoughts on body language. What kind of body language is appealing to you? Are there gestures or postures that make someone stand out positively?

Despite my efforts to expand my social circles by attending church and the gym, rejection has been a recurring theme. Which by the way, I'm 6.5, brown hair and in shape.

Online dating has been part of my journey as well. For this, It's endless scrolling, sending likes but getting absolutely nothing in return. What are your perspectives on creating an appealing online dating profile? What kind of information stands out to you? I make sure to post pictures of myself smiling and doing stuff I enjoy as well as put thought into the about me section.

I'm extending an invitation for an ongoing conversation. Your guidance and coaching could be instrumental in helping me navigate through this journey, overcome rejection, and build the confidence needed to form lasting connections. I'm open to your wisdom and look forward to the opportunity to learn and grow with your support.