Search Results: first date activities

On your most recent date, which activity happened first?

I have had first dates on which the girl didn't want to hold my hand. I had a first date about twenty years ago on which a girl offered me oral sex. I've had a few first dates - forty years ago - on which the girl and I had PIV sex. I've had a range of experiences.

The girls who would give me a French kiss at the end of a first date were not necessarily promiscuous; I dated one of them for two years and waited five months before we finally had sex. But, in general, I think that girls who French kissed at the end of a first date were quicker to progress to more intimate and sexual activities.

Girls, do you sometimes French kiss at the end of a first date? If you do, does it indicate sexual attraction and a desire to move quickly towards the bedroom? Do you think that gets you into a relationship quicker?

Guys, were the girls who French kissed generally more eager to have sex? Did you consider that to be a good sign or a bad sign?

- Went on a first date off Hinge which went really well.

- I asked for her number on the date but it was incorrect. (I later realised she had got the last 2 digits the wrong way around when she put it into my phone.)

- I messaged her on Hinge asking if she’d be up for meeting up again and her reply 24 hours later was “Hello! Yeah got home safe thanks, had a lovely eve :) yeah meeting up again would be cool :)”

- She’s very busy in her job so I suggested an activity and told her what days I’m available and 48 hours later - no response.

- I also found her on instagram as she gave me her full name when she saved her number into my phone. I don’t want to message her on WhatsApp (corrected number with last 2 digits reversed) as it might seem too forward as it was only by chance I figured out the error. And I don’t want to add her on insta without asking her first.