Search Results: going to therapy

What should I do?

I am in love with my best friend who used to be my boyfriend. I would like to preface before we were together, we were friends for many years like over 10 years but not as close as we are now. In August of 2024,...

Anonymous

(30-35)

Health & Fitness

Should I have told my friends doctor that she needs to go into a nursing home?

She more so my moms friend. They've been friends since before I was born. She moved in with me 7 months ago and has a hard time walking. The doctors think its because of her long term alcohol abuse. We just went to her...

Nicholas1302

Xper 5 Age: 32

Guy's Behavior

When you're interacting with men, do you think it's harder to be an average looking woman vs. an ugly or pretty woman?

I feel like I'm average and being in the middle, you never know what kind of day you'll have. If they're not attracted to me, they either treat me like I don't exist or bully me. However if they find me attractive they'll...

Anonymous

(25-29)

Will I get in trouble for leaving my aunt at home to go to my appointments?

Sey im asking about my aunt again. Sorry, im just desperate for answers. She has trouble walking due to chronic alcohol consumption. At least that's what the doctor said. She even had a lot of alcohol in her system when...

Nicholas1302

Xper 5 Age: 32

What do you think is the REAL reason that this woman wants a divorce?

If you've not seen it, this video has been making the rounds lately. https://www.youtube.com/embed/rrVNcmClAjo QUICK SUMMARY She wants to divorce her husband, despite that he's perfect, he's selfless and hardworking and...

BCRanger10

Master Age: 38

Education & Career

I've once tormented a boy at school, is it worth mentioning the past if he doesn't say anything about it?

I (25 f) just started med school last month and one of my colleagues (also my same age) happens to be the boy whom I wasn't pleasant with long ago. It wasn't a case of me liking him. I acted terrible at that time and took...

Anonymous

(25-29)

Advice on space?

My wife and I are going through a difficult time. She said that she is shut down from loving me at the moment—she says she feels numb. We’ve had arguments in the past, but there’s been no physical fights or cheating. I...

Jordanntcl

Xper 1 Age: 32

Have your parents ever switched trajectories?

My mom used to be so kind and happy and full of life and she'd organize a lot of things for the family and do nice things for people etc. She loved us so fully. My dad was always distracted with taking pictures he used to...

Lynx122

Master Age: 36

Have you cut off all contact with you're parents?

I cut my parents off, ever since I realized I was used and they treated me like an expired object rather than a human being. Let's just say I am the oldest daughter and a lot was expected from me to raised my younger...

Flowersareawsome22

Xper 4 Age: 33

Am I overreacting to the whole situation?

So my boyfriend and I have been together 1 year 6 months officially but known each other for 3 because of work, he's met my mom's side of the family and my friends and he's suppose to meet my dad this weekend. Things are...

Anonymous

(18-24)

What is going on? What should my thoughts be? How do I know if he’s being honest? Why is it that he prefers to mostly talk on Snapchat and text?

Long story short we have been friends for five years. We went on a first date five years ago and then we decided to be friends. Because him and I decided not to date immediately, then we decided to get serious 8 months...

Anonymous

(25-29)

Dating

How do I get someone to date me if I'm bipolar?

People keep telling me to wait until I'm in a good position to date, but wtf does that look like when you're bipolar? If I'm up, people will only like that side of me and then be disappointed once I come down. If I'm down...

L_Lawliet17

Xper 4 Age: 23

Dating

Girls, would you date a man that has had weight loss surgery?

Food was my addiction. I’m in a much better place after surgery and therapy. I ended up getting the gastric sleeve surgery and have dropped 150 pounds to a healthy weight. I’m finally at a place where I’d like to start...

Anonymous

(30-35)

What do you do in the process of separation?

Husband is very manipulative, demeaning, a cheater, and a non-present father. I've tried to leave before but always somehow find myself forgiving and getting roped back in. This time I'm determined for it to be different....

Anonymous

(25-29)

How to help my brother who’s 32, single and been jobless for 3+ years?

This is extremely frustrating. My brother has always been a great student, he has a degree in computer engineering but after he graduated he didn’t have any intention or put in any effort to find a job until one day he...

beenherebefore

Yoda Age: 36

Guys, do you come back after doing the work?

Hello! I’m looking specifically for opinions form guys here. So here is the deal, my ex was a literal minegold. Our relationship was great, we didn’t always communicate when needed but always caught up. Everything was...

Anonymous

(30-35)