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So I have this coworker he a very quiet kinda timid man we will call Zack. I'm considered a Zack expert at work because again Zack doesn't really talk much but I talk constantly so I tend to get him to speak to me. Zack will come find me to let me know it's break time and has say with me during lunch once or twice to talk to me about books.

He tends to startle me because he's a rather small man and quite so I never know he's there and he always appears close by me like if I lift my elbow id probably bump him.

He tries to help me when he can and I don't know if he does it because he himself doesn't like it or because he knows I have damage to my ears but he sets pallets down quietly instead of slamming them like everyone else.

He will also try to pull stickers and stuff that get stuck in my hair off me.

He even picks on me a little bit like might make fun of my spelling

I tried to invite him to see a movie by saying I was going to see if you liked xyz movie because if you did I was going to invite you to come with.

he didn't say no but he also didn't say yes he kinda just evaded the question but asked if I ever went and seen the movie like I wanted.

He's kinda hard to read

Is he just being nice and tolerant of me as a coworker dose he want to be my friend or is he interested in me I just don't know?

matched with someone on 2 other OLD apps before we matched again on this one. The 1st time, maybe 2-3 msgs were exchanged before I deleted the app. 2nd time, we move to IG & he initiates wanting to meet up but I was put off by the fact that he never looks at my stories/reacts to posts but wants to meet in person. I just feel like you should show some kind of interest in my personal life if you’re quick to meet in person. This time around, he asks how I’m doing and actually talks about something interesting, which is what makes me reconsider. For about 2 wks to this past weekend, we’d message maybe 1-2x a day on the OLD app but it was 24 hrs before he replied again to me. He asked the last weekend if I’d be interested in doing some kind of activity with him. Tbh, I was busy last weekend & he said next (this) week might be better b/c he’s also busy but the fact reply time isn’t the 2x daily anymore (he still replies within the 24 hrs so far & I can take a bit longer), I just feel that along with the lack of engagement on social media implies I should just stop it in it’s tracks.