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Search Results: if you text the guy first all the time
How can I get over my fear of dating?
I'm 24, f & never had a boyfriend/ went on a date with a guy. I grew up overweight and got bodyshamed since the age of 10/11. My self confidence is still very low bc of that. When I was 19, I lost a lot of weight &...
Lxcylxcy
Xper 4 Age: 25 My guy friend of 3+ years is being super confusing, what should I do?
I have this close guy friend ( we have know eachother since middle school and we are sophmores) and about a few months ago we started to text (it was initally for me to give him info on club meetings he was missing) but...
Anonymous
(25-29) Does he like me or did he just like the attention coming from me liking him?
A guy (29) at work and I (27) have been bonding about our favorite sport for 3-4 months. About 2 months ago, one of my coworker friends had told me that he knows that I like him and can tell that I do. I figured since he...
Ccmama
Xper 6 Age: 28 Guys, Silent treatment while dating. is it just me or is he busy?
Started dating a guy and we've been only on 3 dates, and he looks controling. When i ask a question he dont like or i reply late he dissapears for a few days and then calls out of nowhere. without answering my calls. And...
Anonymous
(36-45) Would you forgive him for texting his ex behind your back?
When I first started dating my boyfriend, he had told me he had been cheated on (he caught his ex in their bed w another dude) and was traumatized by it. He had this girl in his phone who kept texting him named Victoria,...
Anonymous
(30-35) Guys, My boyfriend broke up with me after 2 years for no apparent reason?
So genuinely it was so sudden it shocked me and everyone around us. Everyone was equally confused as me. One minute everything's fine, like making plans for our wedding one, going to his family's for Christmas, then one...
Anonymous
(25-29) Showing up on the first date with an eczema outbreak?
I matched with this guy on a dating app a few days ago. We hit it off well chat wise so far, so we want to meet up preferably the upcoming weekend for low stakes coffee at a cafe. Only thing is: since about a week i have...
LovelyBones13
Xper 6 Age: 30 How is it like date a guy with kids? how do you get time to meet&date?
I once met a guy on a dating app. He had a kid he had see Sundays. We met in the car , no date he wanted sex & we shared a drink. I don’t let him have sex. We just madeout. But he wouldn’t text much, no plans for dates,...
Anonymous
(25-29) Guys, He says he wants casual but when I am ‘casual’ he pulls away? Why?
So I F/26 was talking to this guy M/23 and we met on a dating app. I matched with him and eventually we text. He tells me he's looking for casual. He asks me if I knew what 'casual' meant and I said basically sex. He said...
Mjohnsoniscool15644
Xper 1 Age: 26 He says he wants casual but wants all access, isn’t casual hit you up here and so for sex?
So I (F/26) was talking to this guy (M/23) and we met on a dating app. I matched with him and eventually we text. He tells me he’s looking for casual. He asks me if I knew what ‘casual’ meant and I said basically sex. He...
Girlinthiscrazyworld
Xper 1 Age: 26 My best friend kissed my ex?
My best friend (WHO HAS A BOYFRIEND) of 6-7 years kissed a guy i used to hook up with. Background The guy and I had a horrible falling out, he said awful things and never apologized for them. My best friend has seen...
Anonymous
(18-24) 
Do you think he likes me?
I met with this guy almost 2 months ago and I can’t forget him and I’m not an obsessive type. I’m 23 years old and he’s 19. We just met to be fuck buddies but he turned out to be a shy and sweet guy. He barely looked at...
Anonymous
(18-24) How do you handle Double standards in relationship?
Pls I know this is long but I need help and perspective My boyfriend and I has been together for over 8 months He got a lot of issues especially his friendliness with girls, he got many girl best friend's most of them he...
Anonymous
(18-24) How long did it take you to get over your ex? How long did it take to get over what they did to you?
It took me 4 years to get over my ex. I think it took that long because we're coworkers. I forgave him around 3 years ago, but I haven't gotten over what he did to me. I think about it every time he starts to get too...
Anonymous
(25-29) There is this tightness in my chest and it's not going?
So I started dating a guy and it's been 2 years almost , I dated for the first time and this is his 2nd time. in the beginning of first year he gave me everything, attention love affection, replied instantly, always got...
Anonymous
(18-24) How do I get this off grid emo guy to know that I like him?
Okay, so first off, we're both in college. He's a senior (graduating May 2026), and I'm a sophomore. We've had classes together, and we've had a few conversations about random things. But that was when I was a freshman...
Anonymous
(18-24) How to know if a guy is losing interest?
so i recently went on Bumble and found pretty good conversations with several different guys but they all stopped talking me around the same day and i matched with this guy i've never actually matched with someone who...
Anonymous
(30-35) I feel like I should cut him off because I I don’t think he’s interested nor are we compatible. Can someone give advice?
I’ve been talking to this guy for a week, we were suppose to meet up a few days after talking but I cancelled of heavy rain. We rescheduled but then he cancelled because of light rain. I don’t think he made any effort...
Anonymous
(18-24) Guys, how badly did I screw this up?
In the past couple weeks, I've noticed my ex pulling away (we're still close) and being more withdrawn lately. He said he's going through some things and is attending therapy, and I'm genuinely happy that he is getting...
Anonymous
(36-45) Date night confusion? Please help…?
I went on a date last night with a lady i met off tinder. I know its not the best place but yeah. We added eachother on facebook and started chatting. Long story short, i took her on a dinner date. We drunk 2 beers a...
jordanb8989
Xper 5 Age: 34 