Guys, Silent treatment while dating. is it just me or is he busy?

[Anonymous]

Started dating a guy and we've been only on 3 dates, and he looks controling. When i ask a question he dont like or i reply late he dissapears for a few days and then calls out of nowhere. without answering my calls. And he does it all the time without explaining or comunicating. He pushes me to text or call him first and etc. should i be worried? it's only been a few dates.

[slatyb]

Dump immediately. The fact that you have to ask these questions tells me all I need to know. This is no way to live.

[Asker]

thank you. But why would he do that when we almost don't know each other.

[slatyb]

Because you aren't a priority, and you never will be. If he cared he would be more responsive. It's not reasonable to expect immediate response to multiple texts per day. After a few dates, it's reasonable to expect some acknowledgement.

[Spencer10]

he is doing you a favor. You are finding out he is a flake sooner rather than later.

[Drumlin2001]

Run.

[Asker]

is it a bad sign? And why he tries to control so early on?

[spartan55]

@Asker ya think?

[Drumlin2001]

He sounds awful, why would you pursue someone you have these doubts about?