There is this tightness in my chest and it's not going?

[Anonymous]

So I started dating a guy and it's been 2 years almost , I dated for the first time and this is his 2nd time. in the beginning of first year he gave me everything, attention love affection, replied instantly, always got texts of good morning etc and we went to dates he was eager to meet me everyday and would come to pick me up , was curious to alse questions, everything felt so perfect. now it's a 2nd year and although we he calls like 3 times a day , but somehow I don't know something feels missing now , he never texts me morning texts now , we go whole day without texting each other even if I do , he replies late even if he's online, and we used to sleep like taking to each other at one time. now i sleep early and he's active on WhatsApp his last seen is always after midnight. and one more thing he is lone child , he has lots of females friends cusns etc whom he talks calls etc. I don't know if it's all normal or i clearly don't understand what's missing. we never have deep convos he never asks me questions about me. I don't know whether he's gotten comfortable or losing interest or just keeping me for comfort. can you guys tell me what should I do? I am highly sensitive introvert i overthink a lot and I don't know what should be done?

[Screenwriter]

There are many "could-bes" but first blush of relationships are always hyper romantic. After awhile, that first-time stuff wears off due to daily responsibilities.

But, you might ask this guy what's going on. He may be tired of your relationship, he may have other issues on his mind. It would be difficult to keep up the "romance" part all the time.

Romance has a time and place. And it can't be all the time and all over the place. But if your conversations are never deep enough for you and you don't discuss matters important to you, I'd find this discouraging.

If he's NEVER done this, this may simply be who this guy is and he's not going to be anyone else. If this isn't what you want in a SO, then perhaps you need to consider moving on.

[Amy_Mi]

What you’re feeling is valid, a shift like this is worth noticing.

Early intensity often fades into routine, but attention, curiosity, and effort shouldn’t disappear entirely.

Red flags lack of questions about you, inconsistent communication, and prioritizing others over connection.

Start with clarity have an honest conversation about your needs and feelings.

Observe his response and actions, not just words.

A relationship thrives on alignment and energy, if it feels one sided, it’s worth evaluating whether comfort has replaced genuine interest.

Your sensitivity and awareness are strengths, honor them by protecting your emotional well being.

[CupcakeTheDestroyer]

Are you feeling an ACTUAL physical sensation or are you just sad because you invested yourself in a man who doesn’t prioritize you?

[Asker]

Yes the other one

[CupcakeTheDestroyer]

That’s not as specific as you think it is. Latter or former?

[Asker]

Latter

[Anonymous]

Your question is about tightness in your chest and your huge paragraph about the details only talks about some guy you're dating?

[Danny_dan92]

See a cardiologist