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3 mo

How do I stop wanting romantic validation and accept being single?

So, as the title says, I am a girl who clearly struggles to date. I am 20 and I have never been asked out, almost never experienced catcalling, my dms are also basically dry and non existent. Its obvious that I am no guys...
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She says she needs time before dating me—is this genuine or a soft rejection?

So I’ve been hanging out with this girl and I made it clear that I would like to take her on a date cuz I also saw some signs from her and I am also interested. (She has told me many times she hates men and doesn’t date...
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Narcissistic behavior or regular rejection (jerkish)?

Can narcissistic abuse affect you even if the connection only lasted three weeks? Is it normal to still feel impacted by how someone treated you? I experienced every stage of narcissistic abuse with him — the idealization...
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3 mo

Would you date a bartender? Why or why not?

I was telling my very sweet bartender friend (M30) that it's high time he find himself a nice young lady. (He's SUPER handsome with a heart of gold, a good head on his shoulders and a great sense of humor. So why tf is he...
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Do you believe in magic?

As I was sitting here gazing into my crystal ball aka staring dreamily at the computer screen while sitting by a warm, cozy fire on a cold, winters night and sipping a hot cider or three, I wondered, as I'm sure all...
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What is your diagnosis for this fictional character 😂?

Up until age 6, he was a perfectly normal child. He started school and until age 10-11, his grades were good, even the best, but the other children excluded him and he experienced peer bullying. At age 10, his mental...
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What the F*ck is “Rizzing”?

Aaaaaaaaaaand ladies and gentlemen, we have a nother reason why social media is garbage that is bad for you. It’s called “rizzing.” And what the fuck exactly is “rizzing”? “Rizzing” is a stupid-sounding modern day...
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Happy 2026 Everyone! Just Wanted to Share Some Words With You All

Another year passed, another year to come. I'm sure some of you had a rough year, and some of you had a great year. That's life. There will be ups and downs all the time. We're all here living, just trying and struggling...
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Is it normal for strangers to stare in NYC?

I was visiting New York (Manhattan) and had an experience that made me feel really uncomfortable and anxious, and I’d like outside perspectives. I was dressed very normally and neutrally: white sneakers, a long...
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My boyfriend is blaming me for my SA?

My boyfriend is completely blaming me for my sexual assault, and it’s clearly damaging our relationship. I was sexually assaulted about one to two weeks ago. When I first told him, he blamed me, then we supposedly “moved...
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I can’t sleep without my boyfriend (after trauma) is this normal?

I’m taking this chance to be completely honest. I struggle so much to sleep without my boyfriend; I only feel safe when he’s there or when I can hear his voice. Without him, I feel incredibly vulnerable and suffer from...
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Is IS just people whom can't perceive like others and feel "gas lighted"?

IS = Islamic State. The shooters viewpoint was "allah is one". Why they picked on Jewish people whom see God as one, makes no sense... not logical. But Allah is not a logical God, most are not. It's more an affront to...
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Is it normal behaviour?

Hi. So I have a situation right now and I’m not sure what to do with it. I had a project to do with a guy. He talks a lot in class but always present. We did the project and everything was fine. Then 2 weeks later, we had...
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Is this response normal? Was I out of line?

There was a Buddhist who would always post videos of himself doing good deeds in Asia. One day I watched his video and I talked about how cute the dogs were and not how amazing his good deed was, and he got made at me as...
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Jordan Peterson claims to have an I. Q. of 160 if I remember correctly, would you guess he was a genius based on his content?

I learned in university you are not graded purely by your skill and aptitude, but also by your likability as a person, as student and an academic. Being likeable involves using inclusive language, using words that normal...
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The down side of remote work - anyone else a virtual assistant here?

I just finished my first day as a virtual assistant. Man it was just not worth it. I have to track my time, which is normal, but the system takes a screenshot randomly every 5 minutes. And you're expected to already know...
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What have been your experiences with Trump Derangement Syndrome (TDS)?

I'm not going to ask this question as a pejorative or disrespectful one, as is sadly often the case in today's divisive political landscape. I am asking it in the context of the genuine psychological disorder that many...
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Should I say something to him or not?

Sooo... In my past I have experienced girls who are into my man and they show off signs unwillingly and willingly to me. The unwilling ones I don't care about. Before when I had told him this, the willingly ones, he get...
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Have you ever had a really intense chemistry with someone and is it rare?

Like you met someone and it was just really intense chemistry from the start, like you just knew. Have you experienced that before? I don’t mean just normal attraction, it’s more than that. I reckon I’ve had it like...
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How often is too often to start spicy texting In long distance relationships?

I’m in a long distance relationship and I’ve been wondering something. How many times is too much to bring up spicy texting. I try to keep the vibe fun and playful, not like I’m forcing anything. Sometimes I feel like I’m...
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