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I met this guy on tinder and we got talk and liked each other, we finally decided to see and for a while he wanted to be around me all the time and he wants to cook for me and all, we went grocery shopping together and he even slept at my place but we were not an item (neither did we get intimate) I told him I want to get to know him and not rush into anything and he agreed too. So there was this day I needed to get shoes and he said he wants to go with me and when we got to the shop I picked the two shoes I wanted and he paid and I asked asked if he was ok cause I notice he was a bit different and then we got back home he was mad about the fact that I made him pay for the shoes. I specifically told him I don’t want you to pay yet you went ahead to pay and now you are blaming me? I got so mad cause he was being manipulative but we settled it that night. It became an issue over and over again, he complained of how expensive the shoes are and how he is now broke, so I I decided to cook and invite him to eat since he is broke, but I got tired of him bringing it up so I told him after a long week or two of bringing it up that he should give me his details and I would send the money, he threw his card on my face (landed on my eyes) that I should send the money, I told took his details and I told him to get out and of my house and he was begging but I had to be calm cause he was being violent before he started begging and I was scared, I faked setting with him so I wouldn’t be beat up and we was all lovey dovey before he left my place and then he called days later to have conversations with me and I told him this can’t work cause he is a bit violent and disrespectful with words and then he said “shut the f**k up you dumb bitch* I ended the call and blocked him everywhere, he reached out not long ago that I should pay for the shoes and less I forget I have him on video saying I shouldn’t pay for the shoes that they are gifts before we had the fight.

Long story short, I bought land with my own money and he land is under my name. However, my parents have invested some money with renovations. When the land was bought it was agreed that it would be my safe place away from all drama and negativity…I do not get along with my older siblings. In that land I have my farm animals that I love with all my heart. Time and time again my parents have taken random people to that land to show it off and those people have taken pictures and posted them online. Most recently, my brother’s wife posted pictures and videos. My brother’s wife does not like me at all…we’ve argued a lot in the past. I’ve had no contact with her or my brother for over 6 years and within that time she has talked negatively about me and my family on her social media. Which is why it bothered me that my parents would allow her in my property near my animals.

which has made me think if whether or not I should just sell my livestock. It makes me uncomfortable know that random people that don’t like me go into my property and take pictures of my belongings. I would rather the land be empty so there’s nothing there when my parents take random people there…what would they show off if all of the good stuff is gone.

anyways, what do y’all think? What would you do?